"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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warming up your car

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i drive a 97 toyota rav4 and was wondering if one should warm up they car in the morning before i go to work any thoughts on this
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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theunflushables

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It depends. If you live in the hood, I wouldnt. Decent neighborhood, why not?
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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From what I hear, it is really not needed with modern autos.

But I'm not a mechanic.

In fact I remember reading that modern cars may benefit more from being driven cold than idling to warm up.

But like I said, I really don't know and may or may not be wrong.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
From what I hear, it is really not needed with modern autos.


In fact I remember reading that modern cars may benefit more from being driven cold than idling to warm up.
This is correct. Rather than idling a cold engine where it wouldn't lubricate as well at idle, it's best to drive it modestly to warm it up so that the rpm's are around the 2000 rpm range or so. Since I dislike foreign cars the OP should just jump in it a gun it :whistle: .
 

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Letting your car run for couple of mins or driving it very calmly allows oil to get where its supposed to go before you really put the engine to work, which decreases wear on the engine.

If you constantly floor the pedal right after starting up a car thats been sitting for a while, your engine won't last very long.


You should also let it warm up if its below freezing. Frozen metal,friction, and sudden heat is a bad combo.

Although, these steps are a lot more helpful on newer cars. On older car like yours if you start doing this, it may prolong engine life a bit, but not really by much. If you do this along with regular oil changes for the life of a new car, your engine will last many hundreds of thousands of miles.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AAAgent

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its winter man, would u rather sit in a freezing car or a warm one.

in the end it doesn't hurt to warm it up.
 
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