la-migra-is-after-me
Don Juan
i drive a 97 toyota rav4 and was wondering if one should warm up they car in the morning before i go to work any thoughts on this
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
warming up your car
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
theunflushables
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It depends. If you live in the hood, I wouldnt. Decent neighborhood, why not?
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From what I hear, it is really not needed with modern autos.
But I'm not a mechanic.
In fact I remember reading that modern cars may benefit more from being driven cold than idling to warm up.
But like I said, I really don't know and may or may not be wrong.
But I'm not a mechanic.
In fact I remember reading that modern cars may benefit more from being driven cold than idling to warm up.
But like I said, I really don't know and may or may not be wrong.
This is correct. Rather than idling a cold engine where it wouldn't lubricate as well at idle, it's best to drive it modestly to warm it up so that the rpm's are around the 2000 rpm range or so. Since I dislike foreign cars the OP should just jump in it a gun itTeflon_Mcgee said:
.Letting your car run for couple of mins or driving it very calmly allows oil to get where its supposed to go before you really put the engine to work, which decreases wear on the engine.
If you constantly floor the pedal right after starting up a car thats been sitting for a while, your engine won't last very long.
You should also let it warm up if its below freezing. Frozen metal,friction, and sudden heat is a bad combo.
Although, these steps are a lot more helpful on newer cars. On older car like yours if you start doing this, it may prolong engine life a bit, but not really by much. If you do this along with regular oil changes for the life of a new car, your engine will last many hundreds of thousands of miles.
If you constantly floor the pedal right after starting up a car thats been sitting for a while, your engine won't last very long.
You should also let it warm up if its below freezing. Frozen metal,friction, and sudden heat is a bad combo.
Although, these steps are a lot more helpful on newer cars. On older car like yours if you start doing this, it may prolong engine life a bit, but not really by much. If you do this along with regular oil changes for the life of a new car, your engine will last many hundreds of thousands of miles.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.