"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gonzalo

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Hello people. I guess I´m not alone in thinking that ****blockers should die slowly in pay per view?

Anyways, I went out to this bar with some friends, our table was next to one with four girls so we ended up chatting them. Thing is I´m DJying this girl and this friend of a friend, reaking AFC, jumps right in to ****block. I didn´t feel like getting possesive about this girl so I kept talking to my buddies, letting the AFC crash and burn by himself. When we were all leaving I go to the girl and ask her number, and get it, and only AFTER the AFC sees this he comes and asks for the number as well, right in my face. That has to be the most unsuave thing I´ve seen all year thus far. Any ideas on how to handle these bonafide ****blockers? G
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So big deal, he liked her just like you did and asked for her digits. However now comes the moment of truth. While this AFC calls her tommorrow or in 2 days, you'll be patiently waiting till 5-9 days. Instead of telling her your lifestory on the phone, youll simply ask her to a cafe' in which you will engage in light and humorous conversation.

The AFC is gonna mess things up for himself whilst making you look even more DJ than you already are, due to the comparison effect.

Good luck brother.
 
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I have a friend with a gf that whenever we're out together, he tries to take dives for me and pull off potential ****blockers. It sadly didn't work on New Years, but it's helped a few times in the past. Try it...

-Mr. Pink
 
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