This is so stupid. I overcame so many objections and even managed to get this chick sounding excited. I thought the cat was in the bag, was feeling confident, and thought I'd only need to build trust, comfort and rapport when we met for coffee.
So I call, and when I did, I was LAZY. I let her decide the place and the time. And she dropped a bomb on me. She said she wanted to bring a guy friend along. At first I said ok, because I thought that I would handle it.
Then I realised, that I did not know how to AMOG. Did not think I could successfully ISOLATE the chick, since this is the first time I'm doing it, what more with a guy friend around. I started making excuses about why she shouldn't bring her friend. LAME excuses. I began to get the feeling that she was planning to meet me out of pity/ curiosity and then bail together with the guy for real fun. So in the end, I called it off, and practised scorched earth on my handphone.
I really beat myself up over this, but now my moment of weakness has passed. I've highlighted several steps to allow me to possess a stronger, more assertive and dominant frame, but do help arm me with weapons.
What should I say to any other chick that says something like this in the future, without jeopardising things, since I do want to **** them.
So I call, and when I did, I was LAZY. I let her decide the place and the time. And she dropped a bomb on me. She said she wanted to bring a guy friend along. At first I said ok, because I thought that I would handle it.
Then I realised, that I did not know how to AMOG. Did not think I could successfully ISOLATE the chick, since this is the first time I'm doing it, what more with a guy friend around. I started making excuses about why she shouldn't bring her friend. LAME excuses. I began to get the feeling that she was planning to meet me out of pity/ curiosity and then bail together with the guy for real fun. So in the end, I called it off, and practised scorched earth on my handphone.
I really beat myself up over this, but now my moment of weakness has passed. I've highlighted several steps to allow me to possess a stronger, more assertive and dominant frame, but do help arm me with weapons.
What should I say to any other chick that says something like this in the future, without jeopardising things, since I do want to **** them.
