"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wants to bring guy friend along

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This is so stupid. I overcame so many objections and even managed to get this chick sounding excited. I thought the cat was in the bag, was feeling confident, and thought I'd only need to build trust, comfort and rapport when we met for coffee.

So I call, and when I did, I was LAZY. I let her decide the place and the time. And she dropped a bomb on me. She said she wanted to bring a guy friend along. At first I said ok, because I thought that I would handle it.

Then I realised, that I did not know how to AMOG. Did not think I could successfully ISOLATE the chick, since this is the first time I'm doing it, what more with a guy friend around. I started making excuses about why she shouldn't bring her friend. LAME excuses. I began to get the feeling that she was planning to meet me out of pity/ curiosity and then bail together with the guy for real fun. So in the end, I called it off, and practised scorched earth on my handphone.

I really beat myself up over this, but now my moment of weakness has passed. I've highlighted several steps to allow me to possess a stronger, more assertive and dominant frame, but do help arm me with weapons.

What should I say to any other chick that says something like this in the future, without jeopardising things, since I do want to **** them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Can I bring my girlfriend along?"
"Sorry I don't date guys"
 
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Thank you. I needed to hear it from you guys.

I just realised, that this chick was playing me for a fool.

I'd set up the meet as a 'get to know each other' session and she must've known it was only for two people if she had to ask if she could bring a friend.

MOTHER****ER!!!!! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

"Can I bring my guy friend?"
"No you may not." Thwack thwack thwack thwack thwack
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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