"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The title is just an attention grabber. My real problem is that i think im too obvious around women, and they can usually tell when i like them. Like usually at parties, i like to pick the hottest woman in the room and have her number or something by the end of the night (personal challenge). So i go about doing this, we usually cuddle, make out, all that. But then the next time i see them theyre just totalyl uninterested, or dont return my calls. Just today i met someone i was interested in a while ago. We had some hardcore kino going on. And i saw her with a group of her friends who i also knew quite well. I went up and hugged her, and then she turned to her friends and said "well of course he hugs me before you girls." So this made me assume that i made it obvious that i liked her, causing her to lose interest. How do i make my intentions clear without being to obvious and losing her attraction?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who hugs girls? I hug my nephew and my gf, that's it.

edit. Actually, although I'm 38 I remember a lot of exaggerated kissing and hugging from when I was a teenager, like they're your oldest friends and you haven't seen them for years, rather someone you met at a party a fortnight ago. Still, lose the habit, its AFC.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nighthawk said:
Who hugs girls? I hug my nephew and my gf, that's it.

edit. Actually, although I'm 38 I remember a lot of exaggerated kissing and hugging from when I was a teenager, like they're your oldest friends and you haven't seen them for years, rather someone you met at a party a fortnight ago. Still, lose the habit, its AFC.
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Ah i never realized. I'll stop ASAP.

I hate to seem like a jerk, but that still doesnt answer my question...

Obviously i did something before that to be too obvious/forwward/coming on too strong, cuz she didnt return my text... im pretty sure she got it too.
 
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for the record... stop doing misleading thread names... people will look at it either way... seriously.
 
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