"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wanting to get bigger but not wanting to give up cardio...

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Espi said:
Fellas, some of you no doubt possess advanced levels of nutritional knowledge, but I sincerely feel that you are complicating bulking.

You don't need much knowledge to gain weight.

Gaining weight comes down to one undisputable truth:

Consume more calories than you burn.

That's it.

That is all one has to do to gain weight...provided, of course, he consumes the right type of calories (protein, carbs, fat) at the right times (every 3 hours, generally speaking) and combines a strength traning program.

No offense, but acidity levels in meat, pytochemicals in vegatables, antioxidants in minerals, etc. etc. etc. make gaining weight harder than it should be.

Let's just keep it simple.

Sure, knowledge is good, but acidity, pytochemicals, and antioxidants ain't gonna help me bulk, which is the orginal poster's request.
Absolutely. You don't need all that stuff to bulk. But, it defiantly won't hinder bulking. It will probably help considering recovery.

You don't need advanced knowledge to eat fruits and vegetables.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Espi said:
Let's just keep it simple.

I agree with the keeping it simple ,squat, deadlift, bench, EAT. I just can't personally relate to not eating veggies and having veggies hinder me from reaching my cal total and i'm consuming 4500-5000cals a day at this point. I always have room for them and look forward to my salad with italian dressing after my protein and carbs.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
I don't believe oatmeal is particularly healthy either.




t-nation.com said:
Oatmeal is the most common food allergen. It comes from the grass family after all.

In 2001 I ran blood work on every single one of my clients using six different labs. Oatmeal always came out as the most frequent food allergen. It can raise cortisol and lead to the storage of fat in the abdominal area.

I'm anti-oatmeal, especially for Caucasians. Quinoa may be a better choice.
http://www.t-nation.com/readArticle.do?id=1754646&cr=

There is a reason grass foods are not healthy. Cave man would not be bothered to gather thousands of grains when he could just kill a cow or eat a whole tomato. Only when Agriculture started were we able to harvest grains. Which is why Asians can handle grains just fine. They were the first ones to harvest grains and their digestive system has had time to evolve.
 
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Mctwist4 said:
Fuc'k! I've been downing this oatmeal with a big smile on my face. So what's another good carb source then.
Sweet potato, all fruit and veggies
 

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wolf116 said:
http://www.t-nation.com/readArticle.do?id=1754646&cr=

There is a reason grass foods are not healthy. Cave man would not be bothered to gather thousands of grains when he could just kill a cow or eat a whole tomato. Only when Agriculture started were we able to harvest grains. Which is why Asians can handle grains just fine. They were the first ones to harvest grains and their digestive system has had time to evolve.
Is that the only source claiming oatmeal isn't good for you and leads to fat "in the abdominal area"?

Wait, the whole piece he wrote about it seemed to be more about carbs in general, not just oatmeal. Since you need carbs to bulk, I'm still not convinced oatmeal is bad.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need little carbs to bulk if you know how. He was talking about allergies with oats.
 

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you need carbs to bulk? news to me

I went from 180 to 240 eating less than 100g of carbs a day (not including pwo).. maybe I'm a freak. :D
 
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