"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wanting to get bigger but not wanting to give up cardio...

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Espi said:
Fellas, some of you no doubt possess advanced levels of nutritional knowledge, but I sincerely feel that you are complicating bulking.

You don't need much knowledge to gain weight.

Gaining weight comes down to one undisputable truth:

Consume more calories than you burn.

That's it.

That is all one has to do to gain weight...provided, of course, he consumes the right type of calories (protein, carbs, fat) at the right times (every 3 hours, generally speaking) and combines a strength traning program.

No offense, but acidity levels in meat, pytochemicals in vegatables, antioxidants in minerals, etc. etc. etc. make gaining weight harder than it should be.

Let's just keep it simple.

Sure, knowledge is good, but acidity, pytochemicals, and antioxidants ain't gonna help me bulk, which is the orginal poster's request.
Absolutely. You don't need all that stuff to bulk. But, it defiantly won't hinder bulking. It will probably help considering recovery.

You don't need advanced knowledge to eat fruits and vegetables.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Espi said:
Let's just keep it simple.

I agree with the keeping it simple ,squat, deadlift, bench, EAT. I just can't personally relate to not eating veggies and having veggies hinder me from reaching my cal total and i'm consuming 4500-5000cals a day at this point. I always have room for them and look forward to my salad with italian dressing after my protein and carbs.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
I don't believe oatmeal is particularly healthy either.




t-nation.com said:
Oatmeal is the most common food allergen. It comes from the grass family after all.

In 2001 I ran blood work on every single one of my clients using six different labs. Oatmeal always came out as the most frequent food allergen. It can raise cortisol and lead to the storage of fat in the abdominal area.

I'm anti-oatmeal, especially for Caucasians. Quinoa may be a better choice.
http://www.t-nation.com/readArticle.do?id=1754646&cr=

There is a reason grass foods are not healthy. Cave man would not be bothered to gather thousands of grains when he could just kill a cow or eat a whole tomato. Only when Agriculture started were we able to harvest grains. Which is why Asians can handle grains just fine. They were the first ones to harvest grains and their digestive system has had time to evolve.
 
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Mctwist4 said:
Fuc'k! I've been downing this oatmeal with a big smile on my face. So what's another good carb source then.
Sweet potato, all fruit and veggies
 

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wolf116 said:
http://www.t-nation.com/readArticle.do?id=1754646&cr=

There is a reason grass foods are not healthy. Cave man would not be bothered to gather thousands of grains when he could just kill a cow or eat a whole tomato. Only when Agriculture started were we able to harvest grains. Which is why Asians can handle grains just fine. They were the first ones to harvest grains and their digestive system has had time to evolve.
Is that the only source claiming oatmeal isn't good for you and leads to fat "in the abdominal area"?

Wait, the whole piece he wrote about it seemed to be more about carbs in general, not just oatmeal. Since you need carbs to bulk, I'm still not convinced oatmeal is bad.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need little carbs to bulk if you know how. He was talking about allergies with oats.
 

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you need carbs to bulk? news to me

I went from 180 to 240 eating less than 100g of carbs a day (not including pwo).. maybe I'm a freak. :D
 
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