"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wanting to cheat after only 1 day..

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hey guys. just got a girlfriend (thursday) went to a club (friday night) she wasn't there. i was working my game with some girls, doing alot of flirting. the main target was a group of 4. one of them liked me in the past (and still is interested now if i'm reading signs right), one was with a mate of mine for a while, another hates all of my friends but didn't really know me and the last one is very quiet and i'd seen around alot, but never actually spoken to her.
so i'm flirting with all of the girls, and they were all liking it, dancing with them grinding on them getting positive feedback from all of them. (had the first girls number, wanted the 4th girls number, got the 2nd girls number then said to the 4th girl, chuck urs in too. it worked no problems) now i would pursue the 4th girl except that i've got this new girlfriend, who i like. but what i would like to do is raise this girls interest levels, get her thinking that i'm a bit of alright and then maybe in the future something will happen. should i use her number to sms/call? and what exactly should i say..
i'm thinking i should probably just leave it..

also, got alot of great social proff. my best friend (chick) from when i was 15 was there with my brothers ex and so they were hugging me, kissing me, dancing with me, right infront of these other girls.

but yeah, my question is should i act on the number at all? and how should i go about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nah nah.. i did exactly that with my first girlfriend (like 2 year ago, i was hella afc at the time so it prob wouldn't have been a great relationship anyway)
but yeah, did that and regretted it badly.
i'm enjoying the sex, and want to keep having sex with her. and i enjoy her company.. i'm just a flirty person and would like to have some options for once the relationship ends, probably won't last that long.. although there arn't any problems yet.
 
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lol.. well i did something stupid..
i know this wasn't what a dj is ment to do.. but i couldn't help it.
she wanted commitment, i said no time for it, she said ok, and we were having sex.
now i've started to like her so i said lets be exclusive, because mainly she'd pick up more then me (she always tags along when i go out, and she goes out when i don't, i'm alot busier) and i'd be jealous of that.

i want open relationship, but only open for me..
obviously, i can't have that. i can not cheat, but because i don't think this'll last an aweful long time i'd liek to have options, and this girl i mentioned earlier i'd always had a bit of a thing for her. (however theres no gurantees that anything would happen there)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so what ur saying is, i got my **** so down pat that everything is perfect...











or i'm so bad that there is no solution to my problems..

i fear its the latter..
oh well, just try and enjoy the ride.
 
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