"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wanting to cheat after only 1 day..

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hey guys. just got a girlfriend (thursday) went to a club (friday night) she wasn't there. i was working my game with some girls, doing alot of flirting. the main target was a group of 4. one of them liked me in the past (and still is interested now if i'm reading signs right), one was with a mate of mine for a while, another hates all of my friends but didn't really know me and the last one is very quiet and i'd seen around alot, but never actually spoken to her.
so i'm flirting with all of the girls, and they were all liking it, dancing with them grinding on them getting positive feedback from all of them. (had the first girls number, wanted the 4th girls number, got the 2nd girls number then said to the 4th girl, chuck urs in too. it worked no problems) now i would pursue the 4th girl except that i've got this new girlfriend, who i like. but what i would like to do is raise this girls interest levels, get her thinking that i'm a bit of alright and then maybe in the future something will happen. should i use her number to sms/call? and what exactly should i say..
i'm thinking i should probably just leave it..

also, got alot of great social proff. my best friend (chick) from when i was 15 was there with my brothers ex and so they were hugging me, kissing me, dancing with me, right infront of these other girls.

but yeah, my question is should i act on the number at all? and how should i go about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nah nah.. i did exactly that with my first girlfriend (like 2 year ago, i was hella afc at the time so it prob wouldn't have been a great relationship anyway)
but yeah, did that and regretted it badly.
i'm enjoying the sex, and want to keep having sex with her. and i enjoy her company.. i'm just a flirty person and would like to have some options for once the relationship ends, probably won't last that long.. although there arn't any problems yet.
 
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lol.. well i did something stupid..
i know this wasn't what a dj is ment to do.. but i couldn't help it.
she wanted commitment, i said no time for it, she said ok, and we were having sex.
now i've started to like her so i said lets be exclusive, because mainly she'd pick up more then me (she always tags along when i go out, and she goes out when i don't, i'm alot busier) and i'd be jealous of that.

i want open relationship, but only open for me..
obviously, i can't have that. i can not cheat, but because i don't think this'll last an aweful long time i'd liek to have options, and this girl i mentioned earlier i'd always had a bit of a thing for her. (however theres no gurantees that anything would happen there)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so what ur saying is, i got my **** so down pat that everything is perfect...











or i'm so bad that there is no solution to my problems..

i fear its the latter..
oh well, just try and enjoy the ride.
 
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