"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I will try and be brief. I met this guy 3 years ago. And we went out for a year. Everytime that we went out he would ask me if I had been a " bad girl" ..I mean he would ask me this everytime! He even asked when we would have sex.:confused: :confused: :confused: Usually I would laugh off the question. One time I did answer and he told me that he did not believe the answer...After a while we broke up and he was gone for 2 years. Then he reappeared in my life recently and his first question again was " have you been a bad girl?? do you have other "friends"??? And even when I met him for a date again he asked me again. What is up with that????:confused: :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I honestly think

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHAHAAHH!!!!!!


that's really funny! AHAHAHAHHA!!!!

I guess he wants to be spanked and dominated :D
no idea hahahaha
 
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What did you tell him when he asked when you guys would have sex? Dude sounds like he might just be a little on the strange side.....I don't know. Care to elaborate? I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume your a girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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He wants to bang and thinks your a slut.

Have you been a bad girl? = Have you been messin around?
Do you have any other "friends?" = I'm a fckbuddy, who esle is in this boat.

Next time tell him yes, and that heavens gates are always open.
 
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Hi Cactus,

Yes, I am a girl. And when he asked me that more often than not I just laugh which makes him worse. Is he acting jealous or what?
 
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Originally posted by Heaven's Gate
Hi Cactus,

Yes, I am a girl. And when he asked me that more often than not I just laugh which makes him worse. Is he acting jealous or what?
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He's not acting jealous. he just wants to fvck you brains out. Apparently he is a very highly testosteronalized man who makes his masculine needs known in a very blatent manner.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, that is true, but it is an odd way to express it don't you think??? Or is it fantasy he is thinking of??
 
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Originally posted by Heaven's Gate
Yes, that is true, but it is an odd way to express it don't you think??? Or is it fantasy he is thinking of??
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He's got a fetish for bad girls
 
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Without delving into the delphic origins of such a moniker (no pun intended) I have to ask you to wake up and smell the coffee. Men are not creatures of subtley, this one among the least.

He's trying to be cool and risque and suave and he's obviously failing miserably. If you don't like it, tell him how irritating it is, or stop encouraging him by going out with him. Frankly I think its a deusche-bag line, but hey, I don't know what floats your boat.

If you do like it by all means keep playing along, but don't post on here about it. Our newbs have better things to consider, like which cologne will make a girl sleep with you, or whether having a restraining order filed against you means she's playing hard to get...

-Cyrano
 
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Asking if you've been a Bad girl like that can mean two things, either he is horny and likes you being BAD you know diirrrtty but what I believe it is, is that he's using it to indirectly check if you've been screwing around/****ing others. It's a jealousy indicator.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This guy sounds lame. Nothing worse than somebody who keeps spouting the same lines over and over. No creativity whatsoever.

YOu are a fool if you screw him again.
 
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And even when I met him for a date again he asked me again
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You dating this douche' bag? Whatever. He's horny and just wants to fvck the sh!t outta you. A lameass attempt of seduction from him.
 
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Originally posted by Heaven's Gate
Ohhhhhhh wow...your response was sooo intelligent.
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Sarcasm is one of the most unattractive femine traits. If it's habit, I'd next a woman for it.
 
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