"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KarmaSutra

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Juan Man started a thread awhile back which piqued a lot of us and brought back some pretty horrific (but funny as fvck) memories http://http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18379 I'd like to see the flipside of that coin from you brothers.

I'll jump off the bridge first. My most DJ move was a coupla' months after my divorce was final. I had been browsing some PUA sites and had stumbled into this place. After a couple of months of parusing the posts of Rollo, 'Dish ,
STR8UP and a few others I decided to register and become an active member and take charge of my life (I WAS THEE AFC B!TCHBOY when I was married). I made the decision to change every fvcking aspect of my life starting from the inside/out.

To say that I have accomplished my goal is the understatement of the century. I've lost 57 lbs, Adapted a more directive thought process, better wardrobe, Hotter and more confident than I've ever been and lastly, I have a deep appreciation for my fellow man and the plight we each struggle with in relationship hell.

Who's next?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seriously, my most DJ move is just telling the HB "no" :woo:
 

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asdfghjkl: i did what you said...she kept coming closer to me to kiss,i told her not tonight dear..

hot babe handed me her cell phone: i said i dont give out my phone numbers to the girls...

the list goes on..
 

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Thanks for the props White Belt. It's appreciated.

It is funny how so few brothers are willing to pony up thier accomplishments but will fess up to thier mistakes in droves.

Dr. Phil is smiling . . .
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well, I haven't answered because I'm not remotely satisfied, and am kind of pissed, because, it's my fault.

But.. hmm... I suppose, that my most DJ move, DJ as a whole... would be

Before:
Spending all day home, wanking to IM convos with women I knew were UGs, totally submissive to life. Totally insecure about my looks.

After:
Being a university proffesor (sp?), guys asking me advice on women, and me rising above my insecurities in my looks.

My damn problem is $$$. I'm comfortable at my current job, which has a enormous potential, enormous, but I don't seek for costumers. And since I like it too much, I don't really look for another job. This making me frustrated... but not average nor a chump!

I miss that feeling of change, that feeling of, turning your life around. That is something I miss about AFC/NiceGuyishness... not the actual AFC... but the change, and how it feels to see the changes.
 

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Other than becoming more confident around women...and been myself naturally without having to apply any of the techniques (which i don't agree work any way)

I guess my most DJ move is also (like above) saying no to women i would have in the past, and turning the easy lays...aswell as jumpin from around 140 to 175 in solid muscle (I know it aint alot but it is to me)
 
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