"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KarmaSutra

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Juan Man started a thread awhile back which piqued a lot of us and brought back some pretty horrific (but funny as fvck) memories http://http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18379 I'd like to see the flipside of that coin from you brothers.

I'll jump off the bridge first. My most DJ move was a coupla' months after my divorce was final. I had been browsing some PUA sites and had stumbled into this place. After a couple of months of parusing the posts of Rollo, 'Dish ,
STR8UP and a few others I decided to register and become an active member and take charge of my life (I WAS THEE AFC B!TCHBOY when I was married). I made the decision to change every fvcking aspect of my life starting from the inside/out.

To say that I have accomplished my goal is the understatement of the century. I've lost 57 lbs, Adapted a more directive thought process, better wardrobe, Hotter and more confident than I've ever been and lastly, I have a deep appreciation for my fellow man and the plight we each struggle with in relationship hell.

Who's next?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Seriously, my most DJ move is just telling the HB "no" :woo:
 

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asdfghjkl: i did what you said...she kept coming closer to me to kiss,i told her not tonight dear..

hot babe handed me her cell phone: i said i dont give out my phone numbers to the girls...

the list goes on..
 

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Thanks for the props White Belt. It's appreciated.

It is funny how so few brothers are willing to pony up thier accomplishments but will fess up to thier mistakes in droves.

Dr. Phil is smiling . . .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, I haven't answered because I'm not remotely satisfied, and am kind of pissed, because, it's my fault.

But.. hmm... I suppose, that my most DJ move, DJ as a whole... would be

Before:
Spending all day home, wanking to IM convos with women I knew were UGs, totally submissive to life. Totally insecure about my looks.

After:
Being a university proffesor (sp?), guys asking me advice on women, and me rising above my insecurities in my looks.

My damn problem is $$$. I'm comfortable at my current job, which has a enormous potential, enormous, but I don't seek for costumers. And since I like it too much, I don't really look for another job. This making me frustrated... but not average nor a chump!

I miss that feeling of change, that feeling of, turning your life around. That is something I miss about AFC/NiceGuyishness... not the actual AFC... but the change, and how it feels to see the changes.
 

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Other than becoming more confident around women...and been myself naturally without having to apply any of the techniques (which i don't agree work any way)

I guess my most DJ move is also (like above) saying no to women i would have in the past, and turning the easy lays...aswell as jumpin from around 140 to 175 in solid muscle (I know it aint alot but it is to me)
 
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