"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KarmaSutra

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Juan Man started a thread awhile back which piqued a lot of us and brought back some pretty horrific (but funny as fvck) memories http://http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18379 I'd like to see the flipside of that coin from you brothers.

I'll jump off the bridge first. My most DJ move was a coupla' months after my divorce was final. I had been browsing some PUA sites and had stumbled into this place. After a couple of months of parusing the posts of Rollo, 'Dish ,
STR8UP and a few others I decided to register and become an active member and take charge of my life (I WAS THEE AFC B!TCHBOY when I was married). I made the decision to change every fvcking aspect of my life starting from the inside/out.

To say that I have accomplished my goal is the understatement of the century. I've lost 57 lbs, Adapted a more directive thought process, better wardrobe, Hotter and more confident than I've ever been and lastly, I have a deep appreciation for my fellow man and the plight we each struggle with in relationship hell.

Who's next?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seriously, my most DJ move is just telling the HB "no" :woo:
 

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asdfghjkl: i did what you said...she kept coming closer to me to kiss,i told her not tonight dear..

hot babe handed me her cell phone: i said i dont give out my phone numbers to the girls...

the list goes on..
 

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Thanks for the props White Belt. It's appreciated.

It is funny how so few brothers are willing to pony up thier accomplishments but will fess up to thier mistakes in droves.

Dr. Phil is smiling . . .
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well, I haven't answered because I'm not remotely satisfied, and am kind of pissed, because, it's my fault.

But.. hmm... I suppose, that my most DJ move, DJ as a whole... would be

Before:
Spending all day home, wanking to IM convos with women I knew were UGs, totally submissive to life. Totally insecure about my looks.

After:
Being a university proffesor (sp?), guys asking me advice on women, and me rising above my insecurities in my looks.

My damn problem is $$$. I'm comfortable at my current job, which has a enormous potential, enormous, but I don't seek for costumers. And since I like it too much, I don't really look for another job. This making me frustrated... but not average nor a chump!

I miss that feeling of change, that feeling of, turning your life around. That is something I miss about AFC/NiceGuyishness... not the actual AFC... but the change, and how it feels to see the changes.
 

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Other than becoming more confident around women...and been myself naturally without having to apply any of the techniques (which i don't agree work any way)

I guess my most DJ move is also (like above) saying no to women i would have in the past, and turning the easy lays...aswell as jumpin from around 140 to 175 in solid muscle (I know it aint alot but it is to me)
 
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