"wanted to tell you I got you on my mind since last night" - how would U respond

[Dante420]

I hung out with this group of kids (most of them for the first time), 1 gay kid and 2 girls.....finally I'm the alpha male! (lol just playing) anyway one of these girls is 2 years older than me and she's known OF me for a long time and was admitting some funny things (holding a grudge against my girlfriend because I was "hot" and she never talked to me) and then these people were telling me about how I'm so hot and everyone they know has a sexy nickname for me or wants my d*ck...interesting. So I leave these peoples house at 5 AM, left with nothing other than a back massage from said girl....


I get back to a text at my car that says "sorry if you think I'm weird but either way I really enjoyed chillin. Your pretty awesome"..............



.....then the next text she apoligized for her drunk friend being crazy and asked if me and her were chilling again

but this is the part I need help with, I just saw a Facebook message from her saying

"wanted to tell you I got you on my mind since last night, couldn't keep it to myself anymore. Sorry if this message makes you mad" and she ended the message with a sad face

 

[Acq]

lol she appears to be ashamed of it )

 

[Dante420]

lol she appears to be ashamed of it )

just the way I like it :rockon:

 

[Dante420]

I just need to know if I should respond seriously and direct as she approached me or should I be funny and not serious?

 

[Furyguy]

Haha she sounds nuts. Also sounds like she is already interested, all you have to do is be normal and not f*ck up!

I would tell you to just relax and be yourself and do what comes naturally, but since that seems to be the root of the problem itself for most people who come to this site, maybe it's not the best advice.

David DeAngelo would tell you to say something like
"Oh I am just fuming mad... why don't you make it up to me by cooking me dinner/buying me dinner/taking me bowling/whatever the f*ck you want."

If it were me I would just say "Yeah you definitely seem to be a little bit crazy. Want to join me for a drink/smoking weed/stealing bicycles/whatever some time?"

I don't think you have to worry about being Mr. Fantastic for every interaction, just be a normal dude. And to answer your question directly, don't be too serious. Just relax and have fun with it.

My 2 cents, but what the **** do I know anyways, right?

 

[Dante420]

Haha she sounds nuts. Also sounds like she is already interested, all you have to do is be normal and not f*ck up!

I would tell you to just relax and be yourself and do what comes naturally, but since that seems to be the root of the problem itself for most people who come to this site, maybe it's not the best advice.

David DeAngelo would tell you to say something like
"Oh I am just fuming mad... why don't you make it up to me by cooking me dinner/buying me dinner/taking me bowling/whatever the f*ck you want."

If it were me I would just say "Yeah you definitely seem to be a little bit crazy. Want to join me for a drink/smoking weed/stealing bicycles/whatever some time?"

I don't think you have to worry about being Mr. Fantastic for every interaction, just be a normal dude. And to answer your question directly, don't be too serious. Just relax and have fun with it.

My 2 cents, but what the **** do I know anyways, right?

I really appreciate the answer and that's about right. You know how a boxer is trained to go 12 rounds? but at the end of each round he needs tips from his corner? SoSuave is my corner

 

[Real Talk]

I really appreciate the answer and that's about right. You know how a boxer is trained to go 12 rounds? but at the end of each round he needs tips from his corner? SoSuave is my corner

If its gotten to this point you pretty much have to screw things up yourself. Just be cool, and isolate and **** asap. She wants it, so as long as you get her comfortable, its game on.