Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Magnatolia

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Hi All,

I've been reading a lot about how people go from being an AFC to being cool, confident and able to attract lots of woman.

What I am looking for is what you actually did to make this transition? There's lots of advice on the forum, but nothing that actuallys says how you did this. Most responses are the same - don't worry about what people think, just do it, etc but how about actually telling us 'how' to do these things?

I mean, surely you didn't wake up one morning and suddenly not care what other people think.

I'm especially interested in more details on how you actually 'kino'd' the girl. I'm tired of reading 'I kino'd her all night', etc.

Looking forward to your responses.
Jason
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BrotherAP

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I'll be back to answer this. It's a good question.

But right now I'm going to bed.


BrotherAP :D
 

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Originally posted by Magnatolia
Hi All,

I've been reading a lot about how people go from being an AFC to being cool, confident and able to attract lots of woman.

What I am looking for is what you actually did to make this transition? There's lots of advice on the forum, but nothing that actuallys says how you did this. Most responses are the same - don't worry about what people think, just do it, etc but how about actually telling us 'how' to do these things?

I mean, surely you didn't wake up one morning and suddenly not care what other people think.

I'm especially interested in more details on how you actually 'kino'd' the girl. I'm tired of reading 'I kino'd her all night', etc.

Looking forward to your responses.
Jason
In short, i just tried to not care, and started acting like i didn't care, and at first i was just acting, but the more and more i did it, i realised the only person i have to answer to at the end of the day is me.

Engage strangers in conversation, talk to the checkout lady, talk to everybody, the more you adopt a "i dont care if this person likes me because there's another person over there that might" the more it'll become part of you.
 

Mr Spitfire

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I think we need a new shorter DJ bible.

Bombarding the incoherent with massive amounts of information written by experts is pointless.

You can't absorb the DJ bible in its entirety if you are clueless.

You have to understand whats motivating each specific woman and that you want to get affection. Motivate them to give you affection.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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