Master Don Juan
- Jun 10, 2020
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There were a few times last month where I kind of felt like I should have this talk in a tactful way soon because our situation is a bit different. And she is actually different than most women (she's foreign for one) so the same rules might not apply to to her as some typical slutty thot.In most situations I would say never initiate exclusivity talk, but in this case you do need to move fast. If you wait too long the limerance will fade totally and then why should she even consider limiting her options then? Tell her you've been thinking about going official. Then let her guide the conversation.
Have been in this situation a few times.
Thing is I don't want to demand exclusivity if it's out of fear. I would only do it if I genuinely see this going somewhere, which I did up until recently. The issue I have is that I hate telling women what they can and cannot do. The only way to control women is to not attempt to control them. So demanding exclusivity seems counter productive.
I suppose at the least I can keep it vague and say I'm ready to make this more serious. I know she's annoyed at my refusal to label us a couple.