"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Want to stay young? Wear sunscreen!

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It is well known that UVA and UVB light from the sun is the major cause of skin aging. The formal term for it is "dermatoheliosis".

Normal aging of the skin involves accentuation of lines around areas of tension, such as the "crows feet", "smile lines", and "brow lines".

Sun-damage aging causes the skin to become thin like cigar paper. This thinness allows the dermal blood vessels to be visible,giving the skin a reddish hue. Furthermore, the skin shows a rough texture. Freckles and moles appear in areas where the sun has damaged enough melanocytes to cause an overgrowth of those cells. Then there's the whole cancer thing!

All of the old people walking around nowadays, wrinkly and papery, are not supposed to look THAT old. They were told in the 50s that tanning was good for them, so they did it copiously.

The unfortunate reality is that this damage takes years to manifest itself. The sunburn you got when you were 17 will show up as dematoheliosis at 40. I bet those old women would have not tanned at all if they knew the truth then.

However, you can prevent further damage by wearing SPF 60 sunscreen every day in every season(yes, even winter). Re-apply it every two hours if you are out in the sun.

Women should really take this advice as well. There is nothing worse than seeing a girl who was once very attractive slowly morph into a lizard-like medusa because of her past, and likely current, obsession with tanning.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sunscreen is a major hassle. oily crap that gets all over, and aggravating to shower off.

wear a hat.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt said:
I wear a wide-brimmed hat whenever out in the sun, like this one:
http://www.dkimages.com/discover/previews/781/590907.JPG

And I get plenty of sleep. Lack of sleep ages you quickly.
Ha, I have one of those too, and I get made fun of relentlessly when I wear it. Guess I'm not one of those guys who can pull off wearing things that are outside the box.

So basically it makes me wear it more. This year's trip to the beach, I may even trade it in for a cowboy hat.
 

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mrRuckus said:

Wait that would mean that SINCE more people are wearing MORE sunscreen they would be more prone to be in the SUN which has already been shown to cause skin cancer.

It seems they are trying to blame sunscreen by saying "Well since people are using sun screen a lot down here there seems to be more cases of skin cancer but I doubt it has anything to do with them being in the sun for prolonged periods of time."
 

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You guys freak out about preservatives in foods, but jump to the defense of rubbing chemicals all over your body... in 3 hour periods. Several times a day. That's what you have to do in order to stay covered all day as the OP recommends. "even in winter!!!!1!!"

There's been more information about possible dangers of lotion than just one article.

That's why i said good luck. You are gambling either way you go. I don't know what's best either so you might as well just do what's convenient and i'm pretty sure it's not lathering up a few times a day in the winter.



j0n024 said:
Wait that would mean that SINCE more people are wearing MORE sunscreen they would be more prone to be in the SUN which has already been shown to cause skin cancer.
Is that how you talk? You emphasize random words?

Weird.
 
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