"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Want to stay young? Wear sunscreen!

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It is well known that UVA and UVB light from the sun is the major cause of skin aging. The formal term for it is "dermatoheliosis".

Normal aging of the skin involves accentuation of lines around areas of tension, such as the "crows feet", "smile lines", and "brow lines".

Sun-damage aging causes the skin to become thin like cigar paper. This thinness allows the dermal blood vessels to be visible,giving the skin a reddish hue. Furthermore, the skin shows a rough texture. Freckles and moles appear in areas where the sun has damaged enough melanocytes to cause an overgrowth of those cells. Then there's the whole cancer thing!

All of the old people walking around nowadays, wrinkly and papery, are not supposed to look THAT old. They were told in the 50s that tanning was good for them, so they did it copiously.

The unfortunate reality is that this damage takes years to manifest itself. The sunburn you got when you were 17 will show up as dematoheliosis at 40. I bet those old women would have not tanned at all if they knew the truth then.

However, you can prevent further damage by wearing SPF 60 sunscreen every day in every season(yes, even winter). Re-apply it every two hours if you are out in the sun.

Women should really take this advice as well. There is nothing worse than seeing a girl who was once very attractive slowly morph into a lizard-like medusa because of her past, and likely current, obsession with tanning.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sunscreen is a major hassle. oily crap that gets all over, and aggravating to shower off.

wear a hat.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bible_Belt said:
I wear a wide-brimmed hat whenever out in the sun, like this one:
http://www.dkimages.com/discover/previews/781/590907.JPG

And I get plenty of sleep. Lack of sleep ages you quickly.
Ha, I have one of those too, and I get made fun of relentlessly when I wear it. Guess I'm not one of those guys who can pull off wearing things that are outside the box.

So basically it makes me wear it more. This year's trip to the beach, I may even trade it in for a cowboy hat.
 

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mrRuckus said:

Wait that would mean that SINCE more people are wearing MORE sunscreen they would be more prone to be in the SUN which has already been shown to cause skin cancer.

It seems they are trying to blame sunscreen by saying "Well since people are using sun screen a lot down here there seems to be more cases of skin cancer but I doubt it has anything to do with them being in the sun for prolonged periods of time."
 

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You guys freak out about preservatives in foods, but jump to the defense of rubbing chemicals all over your body... in 3 hour periods. Several times a day. That's what you have to do in order to stay covered all day as the OP recommends. "even in winter!!!!1!!"

There's been more information about possible dangers of lotion than just one article.

That's why i said good luck. You are gambling either way you go. I don't know what's best either so you might as well just do what's convenient and i'm pretty sure it's not lathering up a few times a day in the winter.



j0n024 said:
Wait that would mean that SINCE more people are wearing MORE sunscreen they would be more prone to be in the SUN which has already been shown to cause skin cancer.
Is that how you talk? You emphasize random words?

Weird.
 
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