"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Demon Wolf

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I am 21 yrs old. I have not dated before and would like to start.

Several females have been interested in me, I have rejected everyone of them including the few that I was attracted to. I am not gay.
I have been friends with several females, but I was not really close to any of them.

I would appreciate any advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Marlimus

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You're a homo. Or you have no sex drive. Or you are a homo with no sex drive. I advise you to donate your sexual organs to someone who lost theirs in a horrible accident, or some such misfortune.

In other words, go away.
 
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Sean O

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You know, Marlimus, if you keep acting like an ass, you'll eventually turn into one. Might wanna watch out for that.

Anyway, Demon Wolf, your problem probably just stems from insecurity or perhaps fear of failure. My suggestion? Read the DJ Bible (the link is at the bottom of any page on the SoSuave forums). Keep reading over the material in the Bible until something in your mind just "clicks". When that happens, you'll be well on your way to becoming a DJ.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Marlimus

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it sounds like you have a fear of intimacy. I strongly suggest you see a therapist. I am dead serious about this, I am not trying to insult you in that regard.

Anyway, Demon Wolf, your problem probably just stems from insecurity or perhaps fear of failure. My suggestion? Read the DJ Bible (the link is at the bottom of any page on the SoSuave forums). Keep reading over the material in the Bible until something in your mind just "clicks". When that happens, you'll be well on your way to becoming a DJ.
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The Don Juan Bible is not a cure-all for all the ills of the male condition. And the seduction community, whilst it offers promise, also has a dark side that is unhealthy.

There is no more shame in seeing a therapist than there is in going to a dentist for a check up.
 
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Well, why do you reject people who are interested in you, and who you are attracted to if you want to date? Sounds rather trollish to be honest.

Is it that you lack the basic confidence to carry a date - because - I've found this book called "How to Succeed with Women" helpful of developing dating confidence. Simply have a 30-45 minute coffee date - and talk romantic stuff somewhere near the middle to end of the date. Anyway, I've tried the tips on this book and it has worked in terms of getting the feet wet.
 
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