"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Demon Wolf

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I am 21 yrs old. I have not dated before and would like to start.

Several females have been interested in me, I have rejected everyone of them including the few that I was attracted to. I am not gay.
I have been friends with several females, but I was not really close to any of them.

I would appreciate any advice.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Marlimus

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You're a homo. Or you have no sex drive. Or you are a homo with no sex drive. I advise you to donate your sexual organs to someone who lost theirs in a horrible accident, or some such misfortune.

In other words, go away.
 
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Sean O

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You know, Marlimus, if you keep acting like an ass, you'll eventually turn into one. Might wanna watch out for that.

Anyway, Demon Wolf, your problem probably just stems from insecurity or perhaps fear of failure. My suggestion? Read the DJ Bible (the link is at the bottom of any page on the SoSuave forums). Keep reading over the material in the Bible until something in your mind just "clicks". When that happens, you'll be well on your way to becoming a DJ.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Marlimus

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it sounds like you have a fear of intimacy. I strongly suggest you see a therapist. I am dead serious about this, I am not trying to insult you in that regard.

Anyway, Demon Wolf, your problem probably just stems from insecurity or perhaps fear of failure. My suggestion? Read the DJ Bible (the link is at the bottom of any page on the SoSuave forums). Keep reading over the material in the Bible until something in your mind just "clicks". When that happens, you'll be well on your way to becoming a DJ.
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The Don Juan Bible is not a cure-all for all the ills of the male condition. And the seduction community, whilst it offers promise, also has a dark side that is unhealthy.

There is no more shame in seeing a therapist than there is in going to a dentist for a check up.
 
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Well, why do you reject people who are interested in you, and who you are attracted to if you want to date? Sounds rather trollish to be honest.

Is it that you lack the basic confidence to carry a date - because - I've found this book called "How to Succeed with Women" helpful of developing dating confidence. Simply have a 30-45 minute coffee date - and talk romantic stuff somewhere near the middle to end of the date. Anyway, I've tried the tips on this book and it has worked in terms of getting the feet wet.
 
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