Want to start dating

[Demon Wolf]

I am 21 yrs old. I have not dated before and would like to start.

Several females have been interested in me, I have rejected everyone of them including the few that I was attracted to. I am not gay.
I have been friends with several females, but I was not really close to any of them.

I would appreciate any advice.

 

[Marlimus]

You're a homo. Or you have no sex drive. Or you are a homo with no sex drive. I advise you to donate your sexual organs to someone who lost theirs in a horrible accident, or some such misfortune.

In other words, go away.

 

[Demon Wolf]

I am not gay and do have a sex drive.

 

[flexion_]

Read the DJ bible.

 

[Sean O]

You know, Marlimus, if you keep acting like an ass, you'll eventually turn into one. Might wanna watch out for that.

Anyway, Demon Wolf, your problem probably just stems from insecurity or perhaps fear of failure. My suggestion? Read the DJ Bible (the link is at the bottom of any page on the SoSuave forums). Keep reading over the material in the Bible until something in your mind just "clicks". When that happens, you'll be well on your way to becoming a DJ.

 

[Marlimus]

it sounds like you have a fear of intimacy. I strongly suggest you see a therapist. I am dead serious about this, I am not trying to insult you in that regard.

Anyway, Demon Wolf, your problem probably just stems from insecurity or perhaps fear of failure. My suggestion? Read the DJ Bible (the link is at the bottom of any page on the SoSuave forums). Keep reading over the material in the Bible until something in your mind just "clicks". When that happens, you'll be well on your way to becoming a DJ.

The Don Juan Bible is not a cure-all for all the ills of the male condition. And the seduction community, whilst it offers promise, also has a dark side that is unhealthy.

There is no more shame in seeing a therapist than there is in going to a dentist for a check up.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Well, why do you reject people who are interested in you, and who you are attracted to if you want to date? Sounds rather trollish to be honest.

Is it that you lack the basic confidence to carry a date - because - I've found this book called "How to Succeed with Women" helpful of developing dating confidence. Simply have a 30-45 minute coffee date - and talk romantic stuff somewhere near the middle to end of the date. Anyway, I've tried the tips on this book and it has worked in terms of getting the feet wet.