"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Want to see what it looks like before i do it

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I want to highlight my hair..ive had a good number of people tell me they think its a good idea...but i want to see what it would look like before i do it..anybody know how i could do that...any internet sites or nething?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by MidwestFreek
I want to highlight my hair..ive had a good number of people tell me they think its a good idea...but i want to see what it would look like before i do it..anybody know how i could do that...any internet sites or nething?
its a good idea if youre a homosexual
 

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or...its a good idea if u want a new hairstyle...i know a couple guys who have highlights..and the chicks love it...and theyre straight..i fail to see how wanting to improve your appearance is automatically homosexual...
 

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Well, I've never seen a "real man" with highlights, so I guess what Jester is saying is that you'll automatically be placed out of the "real man" category when people see you.

Then again, it's all about how you carry yourself. So, knock yourself out.

Actually, do it, and post the results. I'm curious.

Edit: Forgot to answer your question :)

No, I don't know of any sites. Some google searches didn't yield anything either.
 

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i have lol..theres this kid at my school...hes like..5'7...165lbs of rock solid muscle...i guess u could call him a "real man"..his hair is either slightly hilighted...or naturally a couple different colors..

as for the category thing...i frankly dont care what category im placed in...ive also tried google...n all that stuff is crap
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It just depends if you want that pretty boy look. Most guys will probably think its gay, but you're not trying to fvck them. Get some girls opinions.
 

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It just depends if you want that pretty boy look. Most guys will probably think its gay, but you're not trying to fvck them. At least I hope your not. Get some girls opinions.
 

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I dunno, I've seen some guys with dyed hair that didn't look gay at all. I'm probably gonna get tips this summer.
 

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i've bleached my tips on and off for the past year. It adds a little flair to yourself and wouldn't hurt to try.

having a hairstylist do it for you can get expensive, so just go to one of the beauty supply stores and get a kit for 10 bucks or so. It isn't hard to bleach your own hair and i'd say go for it, i had positive results.
 

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try it out with a temp dye, depending on the clour of hair and the colour you want to dye it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Garbury, any particular kind ya recommend that would be the most likely to not dye way too much of my hair or turn it the wrong color?
 

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ahhhh this is more like it..stupid homo talk got annoying...it does add flair...and it is something to draw attention to yourself...im not gonna dye my hair blonde and perm it...that would be gay...but im highlighting...

as for the female opinion one response was "OMMMGGGGG..if u highlight your hair...i will LOVE YOU"...someo therse are "i think ull look really good with those" one chick said "highlights are so 7th grade" yah..screw her...n a couple others are indifferent....
 
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