Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Whatever the real number is, it is going down to to rising obesity rates. We should consider ourselves lucky for 15 and so years from now good looking girls will be an endangered species.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Inside Man said:Hey Mahon, remember that any one answer...is never the fu cking answer! Because looks and ratings, and attractivesness are based on your OWN subjective experience!!! Shocking I know, but I don't think I have ever read anything of yours that remotely makes sense.
Everyone is right. You are too affected by entertainment and the media...go get some fresh air and cancel your cable for a couple months. No more E!
iqqi said:I second this.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WesCottII said:So, just to be clear, after this "groundbreaking" study, you've discovered that a % of women are hot, and conversly, a % are not hot. Bible worthy.
I can't believe the lengths you went to for a highly innaccurate study. First, 1000 women does not = America. Second, find something more worthy to do with your life.
A man should be out there doing constructive things, talking to women, going to the gym, buidling, sailing, fighting, traveling, whatever!. NOT poring over a high school photo like some old pervert.
Maybe the reason you don't get highly attractive women, is because you waste your time doing stuff like this. Honestly, I'm flabbergasted by this.
The Inside Man said:LOL you're 30? I thought you were 13 judging from your posts. ? Anyway, just stop. Please.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
[S]alvatore said:What a waste of time. Do you have nothing better to do? Don't you think you could've have used this time more wisely? MAYBE to dig deeper and find the root of your problems, and why you're obsessed with peoples physical looks?
Theory = educated guess.mahon83050 said:My theory proved it false.
Well perhaps 3 but say it's 4, thats 40% being fought over by most men. It wouldn't be so bad if we had a one-one map of guy to girl. e.g.) 10 girl dates 10 guy, 8 girl dates 8 guy etc but reality is top 10% or so of guys are fvcking 60% of the women. So even if 100% of the women were hot, if they're holding all the dating cards and rejecting 90% then it's no consolation. It's always competitive.mahon83050 said:it is more like 4 or 5 out of 10.
Maybe this will help all of you who thought attractive women were RARE and you were in Competition with every other guy out there.
I don't think there's any flaw in his design but it doesn't prove anything. Yes maybe 40 % of women are decent enough looking, but if this 40 % for example only selected 0.1 % of men then of what significance is it that 40 % is the number rather than 20 % or 99%?iqqi said:Theory = educated guess.
Not proof.
Uh oh. There goes your "intelligent design" credibility.
You contradict yourself here because you used CAPS LOCK in the above statement.Deus ex Pianoforte said:That's the same tired excuse that many looks-matter advocates use. Problem is, that it makes absolutely no sense. Since looks don't matter, they need to know that they didn't get rejected for their looks.
Honestly? Yesterday.
Uh, no. YOU never really see it because you prefer to blind yourself to the truth. You'd prefer to remain plugged into your little looks-matter Matrix and recite your "Everybody is envious of my intelligent design" mantra every night.
You're half-right. I personally know several dudes that have confidence and no looks that can go home with a chick from the bar every night if they so desire. Sorry.
Yeah, what do these girls look like? If they aren't atleast "cute" that does not mean squat.
Can I quote you on that? Oh wait, I just did.
You're a delusional nutcase. I recommend Thorazine or Haldol.
Does it make you feel better putting insulting other people?
Are you seriously a 30 year old man? Referring to those with whom you disagree as "whiney pricks" and people who call you out on your nonsense "trolls"? And you're THIRTY? Wow, dude. Just wow.
What does that have to do with anything?
Then that's all that really matters. Stop trying to inflict your banned rhetoric on everybody else. If you want to believe that looks matter, then that's fine. If you want to believe that black people are an inferior race, then that's fine, too. But keep your ignorant beliefs to yourself. As you can see, nobody wants to listen to your idiotic rantings about looks.
Oh, and caps lock does nothing but lower your credibility even further. That was skip2mylou's and various other looks-matter fanatics' mistake. When you bust out the multiple exclamation points and various other indicators of exasperation, you become no better than the drunken homeless man on the street with his warnings of Armageddon.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sorry to butt in again, but what does it matter?mahon83050 said:You contradict yourself here because you used CAPS LOCK in the above statement.
Just curious, if you think my post is such non-sense.
If you walk into a room full of 100 random 20's somethings chicks, how many do you think you would find atleast "cute"?
mahon83050 said:You contradict yourself here because you used CAPS LOCK in the above statement.
Just curious, if you think my post is such non-sense.
If you walk into a room full of 100 random 20's somethings chicks, how many do you think you would find atleast "cute"?
You are a follower man. You see everyone else flaming me, so you figure you chime in for a few shots to boost your already low-self esteem.shop until I die! said:You might want to register for a basic English as a second language course at your local community college, it could help to work out all of your repeating grammatical errors. - Just a suggestion.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.