Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Whatever the real number is, it is going down to to rising obesity rates. We should consider ourselves lucky for 15 and so years from now good looking girls will be an endangered species.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Inside Man said:Hey Mahon, remember that any one answer...is never the fu cking answer! Because looks and ratings, and attractivesness are based on your OWN subjective experience!!! Shocking I know, but I don't think I have ever read anything of yours that remotely makes sense.
Everyone is right. You are too affected by entertainment and the media...go get some fresh air and cancel your cable for a couple months. No more E!
iqqi said:I second this.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WesCottII said:So, just to be clear, after this "groundbreaking" study, you've discovered that a % of women are hot, and conversly, a % are not hot. Bible worthy.
I can't believe the lengths you went to for a highly innaccurate study. First, 1000 women does not = America. Second, find something more worthy to do with your life.
A man should be out there doing constructive things, talking to women, going to the gym, buidling, sailing, fighting, traveling, whatever!. NOT poring over a high school photo like some old pervert.
Maybe the reason you don't get highly attractive women, is because you waste your time doing stuff like this. Honestly, I'm flabbergasted by this.
The Inside Man said:LOL you're 30? I thought you were 13 judging from your posts. ? Anyway, just stop. Please.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
[S]alvatore said:What a waste of time. Do you have nothing better to do? Don't you think you could've have used this time more wisely? MAYBE to dig deeper and find the root of your problems, and why you're obsessed with peoples physical looks?
Theory = educated guess.mahon83050 said:My theory proved it false.
Well perhaps 3 but say it's 4, thats 40% being fought over by most men. It wouldn't be so bad if we had a one-one map of guy to girl. e.g.) 10 girl dates 10 guy, 8 girl dates 8 guy etc but reality is top 10% or so of guys are fvcking 60% of the women. So even if 100% of the women were hot, if they're holding all the dating cards and rejecting 90% then it's no consolation. It's always competitive.mahon83050 said:it is more like 4 or 5 out of 10.
Maybe this will help all of you who thought attractive women were RARE and you were in Competition with every other guy out there.
I don't think there's any flaw in his design but it doesn't prove anything. Yes maybe 40 % of women are decent enough looking, but if this 40 % for example only selected 0.1 % of men then of what significance is it that 40 % is the number rather than 20 % or 99%?iqqi said:Theory = educated guess.
Not proof.
Uh oh. There goes your "intelligent design" credibility.
You contradict yourself here because you used CAPS LOCK in the above statement.Deus ex Pianoforte said:That's the same tired excuse that many looks-matter advocates use. Problem is, that it makes absolutely no sense. Since looks don't matter, they need to know that they didn't get rejected for their looks.
Honestly? Yesterday.
Uh, no. YOU never really see it because you prefer to blind yourself to the truth. You'd prefer to remain plugged into your little looks-matter Matrix and recite your "Everybody is envious of my intelligent design" mantra every night.
You're half-right. I personally know several dudes that have confidence and no looks that can go home with a chick from the bar every night if they so desire. Sorry.
Yeah, what do these girls look like? If they aren't atleast "cute" that does not mean squat.
Can I quote you on that? Oh wait, I just did.
You're a delusional nutcase. I recommend Thorazine or Haldol.
Does it make you feel better putting insulting other people?
Are you seriously a 30 year old man? Referring to those with whom you disagree as "whiney pricks" and people who call you out on your nonsense "trolls"? And you're THIRTY? Wow, dude. Just wow.
What does that have to do with anything?
Then that's all that really matters. Stop trying to inflict your banned rhetoric on everybody else. If you want to believe that looks matter, then that's fine. If you want to believe that black people are an inferior race, then that's fine, too. But keep your ignorant beliefs to yourself. As you can see, nobody wants to listen to your idiotic rantings about looks.
Oh, and caps lock does nothing but lower your credibility even further. That was skip2mylou's and various other looks-matter fanatics' mistake. When you bust out the multiple exclamation points and various other indicators of exasperation, you become no better than the drunken homeless man on the street with his warnings of Armageddon.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sorry to butt in again, but what does it matter?mahon83050 said:You contradict yourself here because you used CAPS LOCK in the above statement.
Just curious, if you think my post is such non-sense.
If you walk into a room full of 100 random 20's somethings chicks, how many do you think you would find atleast "cute"?
mahon83050 said:You contradict yourself here because you used CAPS LOCK in the above statement.
Just curious, if you think my post is such non-sense.
If you walk into a room full of 100 random 20's somethings chicks, how many do you think you would find atleast "cute"?
You are a follower man. You see everyone else flaming me, so you figure you chime in for a few shots to boost your already low-self esteem.shop until I die! said:You might want to register for a basic English as a second language course at your local community college, it could help to work out all of your repeating grammatical errors. - Just a suggestion.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.