This was originally meant as a reply to Liks recent post, but i decided to make a thread.
Seduction starts at home... precisely. When you wake up in the morning you could meet a girl that day, or you could see one that you want to bone. Thats why.. the PU starts when you wake up, not when you first approach her. Every event in your day leading to the PU is in fact, the PU.
To much people focus on confidence. It's interesting, when you focus on being confident you are in a round about kind of way telling yourself you need confidence. If your confident, then there is no need to be focusing on it.
Confidence comes in the moment, the second from when you see her to the second that you walk towards her, that is the moment that you become confident. Not by focusing on your body language, not by focusing on a particular fact.
Its an act called being in 'flow'. What you want is 'flow'.
It is those moments that you just seem to do everything right without thinking about it. That is flow.
You are 'on'.
You talk to all the chicks, you are motivated to go to the gym, eating junk food doesnt even cross your mind, you are naturally alpha and everyone naturally respects you. You are the center of attention and you dont even need to focus.
So how do we achieve this? This, key to confidence. Be spontaneous. Flow is all about spontanuity (is that even a word? I sure as hell spelt it wrong if it is).
so to be confident one has to be spontaneous. Rather then focus on being confident focus on being in a good mood and you will naturally start to approach girls. A good mood is the only way to acheive this. Check out fingers work on boosting mind states, this post was only meant to highlight the importance of doing so
Seduction starts at home... precisely. When you wake up in the morning you could meet a girl that day, or you could see one that you want to bone. Thats why.. the PU starts when you wake up, not when you first approach her. Every event in your day leading to the PU is in fact, the PU.
To much people focus on confidence. It's interesting, when you focus on being confident you are in a round about kind of way telling yourself you need confidence. If your confident, then there is no need to be focusing on it.
Confidence comes in the moment, the second from when you see her to the second that you walk towards her, that is the moment that you become confident. Not by focusing on your body language, not by focusing on a particular fact.
Its an act called being in 'flow'. What you want is 'flow'.
It is those moments that you just seem to do everything right without thinking about it. That is flow.
You are 'on'.
You talk to all the chicks, you are motivated to go to the gym, eating junk food doesnt even cross your mind, you are naturally alpha and everyone naturally respects you. You are the center of attention and you dont even need to focus.
So how do we achieve this? This, key to confidence. Be spontaneous. Flow is all about spontanuity (is that even a word? I sure as hell spelt it wrong if it is).
so to be confident one has to be spontaneous. Rather then focus on being confident focus on being in a good mood and you will naturally start to approach girls. A good mood is the only way to acheive this. Check out fingers work on boosting mind states, this post was only meant to highlight the importance of doing so
