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My x girlfriend, when i see her at holloween, she dressed up as a cheer leader. Then later i found on one of her pix she had a sweat shirt that says "Cheer leader" on it.

She's never been a cheer leader, but i think that's what she wishes she could be. Maybe she's too short.

aside from that she likes to dance. dance on culture show. and she also sings.

i wonder if this mean she's an attention *****.

Does anyone know have any experience with these kind of girls? i know the question is broad but i want to learn as much as i can.
 

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why do u want to know about your ex? lookin to go back or something?? weird...

i guess she just likes cheerleading. everybody has dreams.
 
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you first need to ask yourself why the **** you seek this information...i mean if shes your ex then you should move on....looking at old photos and making comparisons to match up this or that...sounds obsessive..move on and forgot her...u shouldnt care less whether or not shes an attention *****. unless ur planing to create some kind of technique to woe her back to you....sounds like too much work.
NEXT her. Live on.

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i am not going to get into the discussion about why you are wondering things about your ex, but i will tell you that cheerleading cost an arm and three legs.
our school systems are so messed up that the cheerleaders parents have to pay outrageous amounts for them to participate. once highschool starts, they have to pay for a week long camp (usually a hundred bucks) just to get ready for tryouts. that doesnt mean you make the squad. then they have to pay for everything and fundraisers are a pain in the butt too.

when i was young i wanted to be one, and i was pretty good at it i guess, but my mom threw the order form in the trash and said " our last car didnt cost this much." and that was that.

perhaps she just cant afford it.

also, your grades have to be pretty tight or you are not allowed to cheer.

my daughter isnt even 8 yet and her cheerleading crap costs alot, but i would rather pay it than deal with the fundraisers .
 
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Actually i didn't dig any old photo. but what happened was so interesting.

on Valentine of last year while we're still going out, she brought an exposable camara. She used it to take our picture together. after long time broke up, i found that camara hidden on my trunk. i was suppose to return all her stuff but for some reason i don't know how that camara got hidden in the junk of my trunk. when i went to Mexico for vacation, i thought, i'd make use of it. so i took the camara to take some pictures in mexico city. when i developed it, i had her pix of me and her in valentine together. then i also had picture of her that says cheerleader on her shirt.

Just last holloween when we had get together among our friends (she also hang out with my group of friends), she dressed up as a cheerleader. She looked really cute.

So when i saw her picture jacket saying cheerleader, i thought she admires cheerleading or had wished to be a cheerleader. Maybe she's too poor to be one. I don't know. (when i see her the next time, i gave her those pictures back to her).

But what i wonder is if women like her would be attention *****. when we were together, she seemed to want to be with me all the time. i was one who messed up and broke up. now i regret.

thanks for all the input.

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