“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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addidasss

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My x girlfriend, when i see her at holloween, she dressed up as a cheer leader. Then later i found on one of her pix she had a sweat shirt that says "Cheer leader" on it.

She's never been a cheer leader, but i think that's what she wishes she could be. Maybe she's too short.

aside from that she likes to dance. dance on culture show. and she also sings.

i wonder if this mean she's an attention *****.

Does anyone know have any experience with these kind of girls? i know the question is broad but i want to learn as much as i can.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why do u want to know about your ex? lookin to go back or something?? weird...

i guess she just likes cheerleading. everybody has dreams.
 

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you first need to ask yourself why the **** you seek this information...i mean if shes your ex then you should move on....looking at old photos and making comparisons to match up this or that...sounds obsessive..move on and forgot her...u shouldnt care less whether or not shes an attention *****. unless ur planing to create some kind of technique to woe her back to you....sounds like too much work.
NEXT her. Live on.

Respect
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i am not going to get into the discussion about why you are wondering things about your ex, but i will tell you that cheerleading cost an arm and three legs.
our school systems are so messed up that the cheerleaders parents have to pay outrageous amounts for them to participate. once highschool starts, they have to pay for a week long camp (usually a hundred bucks) just to get ready for tryouts. that doesnt mean you make the squad. then they have to pay for everything and fundraisers are a pain in the butt too.

when i was young i wanted to be one, and i was pretty good at it i guess, but my mom threw the order form in the trash and said " our last car didnt cost this much." and that was that.

perhaps she just cant afford it.

also, your grades have to be pretty tight or you are not allowed to cheer.

my daughter isnt even 8 yet and her cheerleading crap costs alot, but i would rather pay it than deal with the fundraisers .
 

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Actually i didn't dig any old photo. but what happened was so interesting.

on Valentine of last year while we're still going out, she brought an exposable camara. She used it to take our picture together. after long time broke up, i found that camara hidden on my trunk. i was suppose to return all her stuff but for some reason i don't know how that camara got hidden in the junk of my trunk. when i went to Mexico for vacation, i thought, i'd make use of it. so i took the camara to take some pictures in mexico city. when i developed it, i had her pix of me and her in valentine together. then i also had picture of her that says cheerleader on her shirt.

Just last holloween when we had get together among our friends (she also hang out with my group of friends), she dressed up as a cheerleader. She looked really cute.

So when i saw her picture jacket saying cheerleader, i thought she admires cheerleading or had wished to be a cheerleader. Maybe she's too poor to be one. I don't know. (when i see her the next time, i gave her those pictures back to her).

But what i wonder is if women like her would be attention *****. when we were together, she seemed to want to be with me all the time. i was one who messed up and broke up. now i regret.

thanks for all the input.

addi asss
 
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