"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Want To Bang Her, But Getting Friend Zoned??
- Thread starter soulforge
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
soulforge
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PipeDope said:
Well she is coming down to my house on saturday, said she will bring some wine with her..
As for her relationship status, she claims to be single.. but i get the feeling she may still be involved with someone..
I want to keep things purely sexual with her... but she keeps texting me every day, which is kinda annoying..
Firestar786
Senior Don Juan
Just wants some rebound c0vk. Doesn't matter if she's with someone else - your not gonna marry her lol
Fvck and keep her as fvxk plate
soulforge
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Firestar786 said:
Well this is it... my guess is she is wanting rebound cok...
She keeps telling me that its ok if i am seeing other woman? So that tells me, she could also be involved with someone..
Problem is, she is on my whatsapp now, and i don't want to talk to her everyday like we are official.
I,m just going to reply back late.. and keep things sexual..