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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Want to add overall thickness

D_Master

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I've been lifting now for almost 1 year and have added around 15 lbs of pure muscle and weight in at 171. People think I have huge arms and nice shoulders but I still need to add thickness in my upper body.

What exercises would I be looking at? Bench, rows, deads, etc. I've gotten my back wider and can do 7 chins with a 45 tied to my waist, the lats are coming in nice, but I just am looking to thicken up and wondered what would be best for that?
 

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shaunuk

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Yeah, deadlifts and squats will add thickness all round :) Post up your routine bud.

-shaun
 

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I don't really have a set routine as far as what exercises I do. I try to switch it up a little. I usually try to do certain body parts on certain days:

Mon - chest/ bi's/ abs
Wed. - Back/ tri's/ calves
Fri - Shoulders/ Legs/ abs

Chest/ Bi day:
Bench (3 sets x 10, 8, 6)
Inclined Bar (same)
Inclined dumbbell (2 sets x 10)
Fly (3 x 10)
- sometimes i will do decline instead of inclined, but my upper pecs need more development. Or i will also do dips instead of flies as well.

Bi's:
Straight bar curl (3x10)
Preacher or seated incline curl ( 3 x 10)
Hammer curl (3x10)

Back day:
Lat pulldown behind head (3 x10)
chins not weighted (4x10)
seated or bent rows 3 sets (10, 8, 6)
deads 3 sets (10, 8, 6)
I will also 1 arm rows 3x10 sometimes

tri's:
pulldowns 3x10
skullcrushers or 1 arm variation 3x10
close grip bench 3 sets (10, 8, 6)
will occassionally do the overhead extensions or kickbacks

shoulders:
seated dumbbell press (3 sets 10,8,6)
standing military press (same)
side lifts 3x10
rear delt 3x10
 

spesmilitis

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doing back workout the bi's, doing chest workouts the tri's. If you wanna do tri's, do em after all your chest workouts. Same with bi's. I would discourage doing any curls, unless its a day before a day you go to the beach or something.

Lat pull downs behind head puts a lotta stress on the rotator cuff, don't do em.

Where are your legs/squats?
 

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Search for the idiots guide to growth by Warboss alex and use the routine in there
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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donjuanjovi

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Squat boy! Squat!
Might want to try some pullovers too. They work wonders for me.
 
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