"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Want to add overall thickness

D_Master

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I've been lifting now for almost 1 year and have added around 15 lbs of pure muscle and weight in at 171. People think I have huge arms and nice shoulders but I still need to add thickness in my upper body.

What exercises would I be looking at? Bench, rows, deads, etc. I've gotten my back wider and can do 7 chins with a 45 tied to my waist, the lats are coming in nice, but I just am looking to thicken up and wondered what would be best for that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shaunuk

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Yeah, deadlifts and squats will add thickness all round :) Post up your routine bud.

-shaun
 

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I don't really have a set routine as far as what exercises I do. I try to switch it up a little. I usually try to do certain body parts on certain days:

Mon - chest/ bi's/ abs
Wed. - Back/ tri's/ calves
Fri - Shoulders/ Legs/ abs

Chest/ Bi day:
Bench (3 sets x 10, 8, 6)
Inclined Bar (same)
Inclined dumbbell (2 sets x 10)
Fly (3 x 10)
- sometimes i will do decline instead of inclined, but my upper pecs need more development. Or i will also do dips instead of flies as well.

Bi's:
Straight bar curl (3x10)
Preacher or seated incline curl ( 3 x 10)
Hammer curl (3x10)

Back day:
Lat pulldown behind head (3 x10)
chins not weighted (4x10)
seated or bent rows 3 sets (10, 8, 6)
deads 3 sets (10, 8, 6)
I will also 1 arm rows 3x10 sometimes

tri's:
pulldowns 3x10
skullcrushers or 1 arm variation 3x10
close grip bench 3 sets (10, 8, 6)
will occassionally do the overhead extensions or kickbacks

shoulders:
seated dumbbell press (3 sets 10,8,6)
standing military press (same)
side lifts 3x10
rear delt 3x10
 

spesmilitis

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doing back workout the bi's, doing chest workouts the tri's. If you wanna do tri's, do em after all your chest workouts. Same with bi's. I would discourage doing any curls, unless its a day before a day you go to the beach or something.

Lat pull downs behind head puts a lotta stress on the rotator cuff, don't do em.

Where are your legs/squats?
 

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Search for the idiots guide to growth by Warboss alex and use the routine in there
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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donjuanjovi

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Squat boy! Squat!
Might want to try some pullovers too. They work wonders for me.
 
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