Want my ex gf back.

[speed dawg]

Blahhhh. Women are weird.

They actually aren't. They are pretty damn predictable.

 

[daproest1]

So you are trying to change reality? Women communicate the way they communicate, it is what it is. Pinning a woman down and trying to have a logical conversation with her will never work. No wonder her IL dropped. You were probably failing sh*t tests like a pro too.

No. That’s ridiculous. I’m trying to right a past wrong before it’s too late (though many of you have alluded to the fact that’s it’s too late, and May very well be right) Not every girl (or guy) is replaceable. I’m seeing 3 now. And I barely want to even see them. I’m doing what I can. Trust that. Things are different now at 31 than they were at 25 when I met her.

 

[Glassguy]

No no, it’s not that I didn’t want it... it just didn’t even occur to me!! Again, first LTR. I don’t do LTRs.

And no. That wasn’t her excuse. That’s mine. U have to spend time with your chick. I was just fine barely seeing her. I Didn’t notice. She’d chase me for my time. Not the other way around. The thing is when you work from home on a computer all day, with little to no social interaction, days blend together. Days become months. As much as I enjoy my solitude, human beings are social animals. Not good for our mental state to be alone all the time.

You sound like a woman. That made me throw up in my mouth when I read it.

Another dude in the picture. Believe it or not. I dont care.

 

[daproest1]

They actually aren't. They are pretty damn predictable.

Lmfao good point. But u gotta admit, unless you study this stuff.... they’re fvcking weird man. I had PU game but zero LTR game. That has since changed.

 

[daproest1]

You sound like a woman. That made me throw up in my mouth when I read it.

Another dude in the picture. Believe it or not. I dont care.

No Fvcking mercy huh fair enough.

 

[Glassguy]

No Fvcking mercy huh fair enough.

No. Its tough love only from me. You need to start seeing things (including women) for what they really are......dont take this the wrong way but in a round about way you are taking up for a woman that just dumped you and I will assure you is already banging someone else.

Does that make a lot of sense?

 

[daproest1]

No. Its tough love only from me. You need to start seeing things (including women) for what they really are......dont take this the wrong way but in a round about way you are taking up for a woman that just dumped you and I will assure you is already banging someone else.

Does that make a lot of sense?

Yes it does. I already assumed that. I’ve bedded a few since too. It’s not so much sticking up for her, as it is taking responsibility for my own short comings as a man. Just wish I would have learned these lessons earlier in life.

 

[RetiredArchitect]

Why are you keeping this thread alive?

Also I just realised this topic is tagged ex wife wtf bro

 

[daproest1]

Why are you keeping this thread alive?

Also I just realised this topic is tagged ex wife wtf bro

6 years... almost marriage... might as well have been my wife. I thought of her as my wife. Keeping alive for 2 reasons.

1. Didn’t know I was supposed to kill it?
2. Every few days someone new chimes in

 

[Alvafe]

6 years... almost marriage... might as well have been my wife. I thought of her as my wife. Keeping alive for 2 reasons.

1. Didn’t know I was supposed to kill it?
2. Every few days someone new chimes in

not seeing anyone new, or saying anything out of what was already told

you really don't need pua tricks, you really don't need anything, things here is to protect you from what you are doing now, mind in overdrive trying to figure out something there is nothing to figure it out

you know the funny thing? you did everything right, tehre was nothing to fix, you concentrate on you and our bussiness, and she was around all this time, again why you think? she loved you? maybe, remember woman love based on opportunity, she was investing on you to get her best deal, she choose this over to keep jumping **** after **** (i'm assuming she never did foul play on this case),but she get tired of waiting for the results she hoped, AKA marrying her, and giving her a nice life (you can bet your a$$ she will find a chump and marry him and be a stay home mom in less then 6 years), because that was her plan all along, woman don't give mercy, are ruthless on how they deal with LTR, and don't matter how sweat, nice, or smart she is all of then will look for the same thing, best you can do is get your better deal, be happy you have nice things going and woman are always easy to replace

 

[glass half full]

not seeing anyone new, or saying anything out of what was already told

you really don't need pua tricks, you really don't need anything, things here is to protect you from what you are doing now, mind in overdrive trying to figure out something there is nothing to figure it out

you know the funny thing? you did everything right, tehre was nothing to fix, you concentrate on you and our bussiness, and she was around all this time, again why you think? she loved you? maybe, remember woman love based on opportunity, she was investing on you to get her best deal, she choose this over to keep jumping **** after **** (i'm assuming she never did foul play on this case),but she get tired of waiting for the results she hoped, AKA marrying her, and giving her a nice life (you can bet your a$$ she will find a chump and marry him and be a stay home mom in less then 6 years), because that was her plan all along, woman don't give mercy, are ruthless on how they deal with LTR, and don't matter how sweat, nice, or smart she is all of then will look for the same thing, best you can do is get your better deal, be happy you have nice things going and woman are always easy to replace

And, after she becomes stay at home momma, she may double in size in the next five years. look at it this way- you had her in her prime.

 

[RickTheToad]

@daproest1, I get it. You are hurt. It's normal. You have emotions and feelings. Take that hurt and pain and turn it into your purpose and aim for better life goals. Challenge yourself. Do not chase pvssy, however, pvssy does in fact attract pvssy (source: Alan Rogie Curry: Oooooh . . . Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex - second chapter).

Start dating, nothing serious, us protection and other ladies will follow. Nothing serious, but you seem to need some companionship. As for six years = a divorce, well, at least you do not have to give up half your assets. There's always a silver lining. Use this event as a teaching moment in your life. It's good you acknowledge your faults. You will do some again, as we all do. Make yourself appear (and eventually be) the higher value person in the relationship. High value men chase excellence, ladies chase high value men. Get it?

 

[Spaz]

Some of the comments here are damn hilarious haha

Unfortunately for OP it's all true.

Time to move on OP.

 

[daproest1]

not seeing anyone new, or saying anything out of what was already told

you really don't need pua tricks, you really don't need anything, things here is to protect you from what you are doing now, mind in overdrive trying to figure out something there is nothing to figure it out

you know the funny thing? you did everything right, tehre was nothing to fix, you concentrate on you and our bussiness, and she was around all this time, again why you think? she loved you? maybe, remember woman love based on opportunity, she was investing on you to get her best deal, she choose this over to keep jumping **** after **** (i'm assuming she never did foul play on this case),but she get tired of waiting for the results she hoped, AKA marrying her, and giving her a nice life (you can bet your a$$ she will find a chump and marry him and be a stay home mom in less then 6 years), because that was her plan all along, woman don't give mercy, are ruthless on how they deal with LTR, and don't matter how sweat, nice, or smart she is all of then will look for the same thing, best you can do is get your better deal, be happy you have nice things going and woman are always easy to replace

I agree with all of that. But not everyone is replaceable. Also.... She doesn’t want to be a stay at home mom. She doesn’t want kids. She has a career. I even tried getting her to be a stay at home wife lol But she doesn’t like depending on men for money. Never asked me for a dime. But yeah, you’re right.

 

[daproest1]

And, after she becomes stay at home momma, she may double in size in the next five years. look at it this way- you had her in her prime.

Lmao it’s funny u say that cuz I totally thought about that. 21-27 is definitely their prime. But na. Not in her genetics to be a whale. Moms hot. Older sisters are hot. She eats well and works out (thanks to me). Etc etc.

 

[daproest1]

@daproest1, I get it. You are hurt. It's normal. You have emotions and feelings. Take that hurt and pain and turn it into your purpose and aim for better life goals. Challenge yourself. Do not chase pvssy, however, pvssy does in fact attract pvssy (source: Alan Rogie Curry: Oooooh . . . Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex - second chapter).

Start dating, nothing serious, us protection and other ladies will follow. Nothing serious, but you seem to need some companionship. As for six years = a divorce, well, at least you do not have to give up half your assets. There's always a silver lining. Use this event as a teaching moment in your life. It's good you acknowledge your faults. You will do some again, as we all do. Make yourself appear (and eventually be) the higher value person in the relationship. High value men chase excellence, ladies chase high value men. Get it?

Got it. Knew it. I WAS the higher value person. I barely thought about the relationship at all. It seems like that was part of the problem, but now u guys are making me doubt that. Maybe I was doing just fine all along. I mean... I could’ve taken her out to the movies or something once in a while but idk... I’m an obsessive workaholic and a gym rat.

 

[daproest1]

Some of the comments here are damn hilarious haha

Unfortunately for OP it's all true.

Time to move on OP.

They really are. I’ve been laughing my ass off all day while you guys insult me. Wish we could all have a beer or something. Thought about putting up a pic of her here so you guys can see where I’m coming from (at least partly) but meh... internet. Shyts crazy.

 

[Cckybold]

Fight for someone you love..But the story ended there nothing you can do..So fight for yourself..I mean self love and move on to the next exciting chapter..Don't dwell to your ex anymore it's been six years every single mole on her body you know where is it....It's soo boring ...So find another girl to start counting her mole..

 

[daproest1]

Fight for someone you love..But the story ended there nothing you can do..So fight for yourself..I mean self love and move on to the next exciting chapter..Don't dwell to your ex anymore it's been six years every single mole on her body you know where is it....It's soo boring ...So find another girl to start counting her mole..

Not boring to me, but other than that, you’re right.

 

[daproest1]

not seeing anyone new, or saying anything out of what was already told

you really don't need pua tricks, you really don't need anything, things here is to protect you from what you are doing now, mind in overdrive trying to figure out something there is nothing to figure it out

you know the funny thing? you did everything right, tehre was nothing to fix, you concentrate on you and our bussiness, and she was around all this time, again why you think? she loved you? maybe, remember woman love based on opportunity, she was investing on you to get her best deal, she choose this over to keep jumping **** after **** (i'm assuming she never did foul play on this case),but she get tired of waiting for the results she hoped, AKA marrying her, and giving her a nice life (you can bet your a$$ she will find a chump and marry him and be a stay home mom in less then 6 years), because that was her plan all along, woman don't give mercy, are ruthless on how they deal with LTR, and don't matter how sweat, nice, or smart she is all of then will look for the same thing, best you can do is get your better deal, be happy you have nice things going and woman are always easy to replace

I didn’t do EVERYTHING right. I was barely seeing her. I’d see her maybe once or twice a week. If that. I didn’t give a ****. And she worked so much. One of those “u don’t know what you have until you lose it” type of deals.