"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LegendBoy

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This isn't really about relation to woman, when not really but is it me or if you have to study for school or what ever can you not do it if your masturbating. If i am not it helps in other aspects of my life, but in relation to getting school work and stuff done, I can't do it when I am not masturbating as I have too much energy.

Having too much energy makes me get off focus so I can't really do to much productive involving school work.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No....i just think about sex alot more.

A wank a day keeps the doctor at bay.



Sarge On!
 

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I have to wank every single time I hear or think about the word "sex", every single time I see a sexy add on the street, every time I see an attractive woman and I don't fclose, every time I get a remotely sexual thought.

So basically I have to wank all the time, but I don't. I do it about 3-4 times a day (each time I do it twice consecutively, so it's often like 6-8 times a day), and I've been doing this since I was 6 years old.

You know what, I'm going to go wank right now. This is serious, I need help.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If that's true Nex, you're right; you do need help.
 

Nex

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azanon said:
If that's true Nex, you're right; you do need help.
Yes, I know I do. Luckly today I got a blowj0b, and thanks to the previous wanks of the day I lasted quite a while, now I need to wank again unfortunately. But I will try to go without wanking for a one month, I think my muscles are really overtrained and need time to recuperate (maybe a full year).
 
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