"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LegendBoy

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This isn't really about relation to woman, when not really but is it me or if you have to study for school or what ever can you not do it if your masturbating. If i am not it helps in other aspects of my life, but in relation to getting school work and stuff done, I can't do it when I am not masturbating as I have too much energy.

Having too much energy makes me get off focus so I can't really do to much productive involving school work.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No....i just think about sex alot more.

A wank a day keeps the doctor at bay.



Sarge On!
 

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I have to wank every single time I hear or think about the word "sex", every single time I see a sexy add on the street, every time I see an attractive woman and I don't fclose, every time I get a remotely sexual thought.

So basically I have to wank all the time, but I don't. I do it about 3-4 times a day (each time I do it twice consecutively, so it's often like 6-8 times a day), and I've been doing this since I was 6 years old.

You know what, I'm going to go wank right now. This is serious, I need help.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If that's true Nex, you're right; you do need help.
 

Nex

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azanon said:
If that's true Nex, you're right; you do need help.
Yes, I know I do. Luckly today I got a blowj0b, and thanks to the previous wanks of the day I lasted quite a while, now I need to wank again unfortunately. But I will try to go without wanking for a one month, I think my muscles are really overtrained and need time to recuperate (maybe a full year).
 
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