"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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walking your date back home, how soon?

solo1

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Technically if a girl still lives with her parents....how soon or better yet when during the dating do you escort her home?

Anyway i have no car, and neither does the girl as she's used to taking the train home late by now. But regardless i wouldnt mind escorting her home (since she lives in a soso neighborhood)...but then i'd have to escort myself home in the train as well.

Would she see it as common courtesy if i did all this, or as a 'nice guy afc' thing?
And how soon is too soon?
 

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GloriouslyInsane

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Well if she ends the date,its too late.Wait actually you have to explain what you mean too soon or late..as in too late for her parents or too late that you become clingy? Anw for the latter always end the date on a high note.
 
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