"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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walking your date back home, how soon?

solo1

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Technically if a girl still lives with her parents....how soon or better yet when during the dating do you escort her home?

Anyway i have no car, and neither does the girl as she's used to taking the train home late by now. But regardless i wouldnt mind escorting her home (since she lives in a soso neighborhood)...but then i'd have to escort myself home in the train as well.

Would she see it as common courtesy if i did all this, or as a 'nice guy afc' thing?
And how soon is too soon?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Well if she ends the date,its too late.Wait actually you have to explain what you mean too soon or late..as in too late for her parents or too late that you become clingy? Anw for the latter always end the date on a high note.
 
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