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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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walking your date back home, how soon?

solo1

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Technically if a girl still lives with her parents....how soon or better yet when during the dating do you escort her home?

Anyway i have no car, and neither does the girl as she's used to taking the train home late by now. But regardless i wouldnt mind escorting her home (since she lives in a soso neighborhood)...but then i'd have to escort myself home in the train as well.

Would she see it as common courtesy if i did all this, or as a 'nice guy afc' thing?
And how soon is too soon?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Well if she ends the date,its too late.Wait actually you have to explain what you mean too soon or late..as in too late for her parents or too late that you become clingy? Anw for the latter always end the date on a high note.
 
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