"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Walden gets off sosuave.

Walden

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Gentlemen I need to get off this site for a while.

I'm working real hard on improving my PUA skills lately and a lot of the stuff I'm reading (on some other sites) is really focssed on that.

What that means is , when I come here I get frustrated by guys who aren't as focussed as I am on learning to same day f*** close anorexic coke snorting golddiggers.

As such I'm going to get the hell off sosuave until I get my game together , and I apologise to all those I've insulted up until this point.

In the game,
Mike.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Walden
What that means is , when I come here I get frustrated by guys who aren't as focussed as I am on learning to same day f*ck close anorexic coke snorting golddiggers.
Man that made me laugh out loud. :)

Good luck Walden keep us updated from time to time.

Cheers.
 
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