"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Walden gets off sosuave.

Walden

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Gentlemen I need to get off this site for a while.

I'm working real hard on improving my PUA skills lately and a lot of the stuff I'm reading (on some other sites) is really focssed on that.

What that means is , when I come here I get frustrated by guys who aren't as focussed as I am on learning to same day f*** close anorexic coke snorting golddiggers.

As such I'm going to get the hell off sosuave until I get my game together , and I apologise to all those I've insulted up until this point.

In the game,
Mike.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slickster

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Originally posted by Walden
What that means is , when I come here I get frustrated by guys who aren't as focussed as I am on learning to same day f*ck close anorexic coke snorting golddiggers.
Man that made me laugh out loud. :)

Good luck Walden keep us updated from time to time.

Cheers.
 
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