"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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waking up in the morning

defiancy

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it does suck everyday i wake up in the morning i dont smell very good like most guys i suppose

however, even though i shower with some good soap (i use dr. bronners peppermint soap) ...there seems to be that particular smell lingering on my body

for some reason it doesnt get off unless i take a bath...but i usually dont have time for this so..any tips to stop this problem?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker

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Originally posted by defiancy
it does suck everyday i wake up in the morning i dont smell very good like most guys i suppose

however, even though i shower with some good soap (i use dr. bronners peppermint soap) ...there seems to be that particular smell lingering on my body

for some reason it doesnt get off unless i take a bath...but i usually dont have time for this so..any tips to stop this problem?
I never had a problem smelling when I wake up in the morning...

used to sweat in the morning... let's just say I don't sweat anymore and leave it at that.
 

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if you have throughly washed yourself and you "smell" bad, its really just the odor lingering in your nose, make sure you brushed your teeth too ;)
also i drink about a litre of water when i wake up for health purposes, but it would probably help you out too.
 

Boner da Stoner

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clean your house would be my first guess

take the dead rabbit out from under the two year old pile of clothes, scrape the mold off your shower walls, stop pissing in the corners, take up the wood from your water soaked floors, stop smoking in the house, and burn that family of rats living in the attic.

and scrub yourself again afterwards, or just scrub the oil off again, the soap doesn't always work unless you wash rinse and than scrub for 30 seconds straight.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lost In Translation

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what you drink / eat can come out through the pores in your skins

are you on medication ?

some medications produce sweating and particular smells

what are you eating ?

i had a Hungarian friend his dad ate so much garlic even when he didn't eat it for days you could still smell it in his sweat and clothing

Lost In Translation :D
 
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