"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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waking up in the morning

defiancy

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it does suck everyday i wake up in the morning i dont smell very good like most guys i suppose

however, even though i shower with some good soap (i use dr. bronners peppermint soap) ...there seems to be that particular smell lingering on my body

for some reason it doesnt get off unless i take a bath...but i usually dont have time for this so..any tips to stop this problem?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker

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Originally posted by defiancy
it does suck everyday i wake up in the morning i dont smell very good like most guys i suppose

however, even though i shower with some good soap (i use dr. bronners peppermint soap) ...there seems to be that particular smell lingering on my body

for some reason it doesnt get off unless i take a bath...but i usually dont have time for this so..any tips to stop this problem?
I never had a problem smelling when I wake up in the morning...

used to sweat in the morning... let's just say I don't sweat anymore and leave it at that.
 

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if you have throughly washed yourself and you "smell" bad, its really just the odor lingering in your nose, make sure you brushed your teeth too ;)
also i drink about a litre of water when i wake up for health purposes, but it would probably help you out too.
 

Boner da Stoner

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clean your house would be my first guess

take the dead rabbit out from under the two year old pile of clothes, scrape the mold off your shower walls, stop pissing in the corners, take up the wood from your water soaked floors, stop smoking in the house, and burn that family of rats living in the attic.

and scrub yourself again afterwards, or just scrub the oil off again, the soap doesn't always work unless you wash rinse and than scrub for 30 seconds straight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lost In Translation

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what you drink / eat can come out through the pores in your skins

are you on medication ?

some medications produce sweating and particular smells

what are you eating ?

i had a Hungarian friend his dad ate so much garlic even when he didn't eat it for days you could still smell it in his sweat and clothing

Lost In Translation :D
 
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