vudufixit
Don Juan
Hmmm... here's one that's been bothering me a bit.
I suppose my friend is a lot better looking than I am,
because no matter which restaurant we go to, or
where the table is, or how we arrange seating
(in other words, I'm trying to account for issues
like glaring light, and comfortable standing position),
it seems waitresses pay far more attention
to my friend.
They'll ask him, if "there's anything else you want" or
otherwise act as if he's the only one at the table.
It's a bit annoying, and obviously different each time,
but I still have to wonder.
I'm not exactly horrible looking - I'm not fat or balding -
he's heavier than I am and getting heavier, and I don't
have any major skin problems or a sloppy facial hair
(almost always clean shaven).
Do I really look that bad compared to my friend?
Am I being concerned/resentful for no reason?
Although a person can't improve their looks too much
(outside of weight control and musculature), what
can they do to command a little more respect and
attention?
Anyone else encounter the same thing when they're out with
a friend or friends?
Thanks, guys...
I suppose my friend is a lot better looking than I am,
because no matter which restaurant we go to, or
where the table is, or how we arrange seating
(in other words, I'm trying to account for issues
like glaring light, and comfortable standing position),
it seems waitresses pay far more attention
to my friend.
They'll ask him, if "there's anything else you want" or
otherwise act as if he's the only one at the table.
It's a bit annoying, and obviously different each time,
but I still have to wonder.
I'm not exactly horrible looking - I'm not fat or balding -
he's heavier than I am and getting heavier, and I don't
have any major skin problems or a sloppy facial hair
(almost always clean shaven).
Do I really look that bad compared to my friend?
Am I being concerned/resentful for no reason?
Although a person can't improve their looks too much
(outside of weight control and musculature), what
can they do to command a little more respect and
attention?
Anyone else encounter the same thing when they're out with
a friend or friends?
Thanks, guys...