"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Waiting for a woman to blow me away! :)

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Fellow Don Juans,

Share your experiences on this:

Since the day I decided to man up, and start running in the Alpha League instead of slogging in the AFC one, I have completely been able to take control of my feelings, and be the man who has been with so many different women that none of them manages to simply blow me away.
Sure, I feel interested to talk to them, to do them, to stay with them..but but but, not like Oh My God! The Woman of my Dreams is here! :\

In short, I have not faced a challenge since.:cheer:
Maybe because I have a completely new mind set and can tackle anything coming my way. Or maybe because I have lost contact with the real teenager thats inside us all when we meet someone fvckable?

I feel philosophical writing this :p

So share with me, here, fellow Juans.
Did you feel stuff like Love at First Sight kinda stuff after being with a bunch of women?

Or is this one of the drawbacks of being an Alpha?:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If I lived in India, I wouldn't be blown away by the women there either. So being Alpha has nothing to do with it.
 

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juicywa said:
If I lived in India, I wouldn't be blown away by the women there either. So being Alpha has nothing to do with it.

Naa man, thats a ****ty thought :)
I'm a born and raised Indian, spent some time in the UK and US too.

Trust me when I say this, Brown Chicks are the most sincere, satisfying lovers in the whole wide world. No *****iness. :)
 

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Meast1525 said:
Unfortunately there is will always be a woman out there who will cause you to get carried away. Its kinda like there is always going to be some guy out there stronger or there is always going to be a car out there faster. My advice to you is just be patient, it will happen. Hopefully you are as masterful as you think you are when that moment comes. Im actually going through it right now and it isa hell of a ride. Your true don juam skills will be put to the test. Goodluck when it happens.

Yeah bro, I soooo wanna feel that with the next woman I meet :p
Guess I'll have to see for myself when that comes.

The one undying fear in my mind, what If my game slips when DA WOMAN! arrives :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I do allow myself to get excited about women. But I channel the energy sexually. I dunno, I just love the feeling of the chase too much to deny myself of it.
 

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I don't know how much it has to do with don juan/alpha stuff, I think it's more of a matter of maturity, and realization.

9 women out of 10, if you take away their looks, are pretty lame. Most of them have no interests, passions, or goals. Their objective is to party and look hot while doing it. When you realize that most women are the same in more aspects than not, it takes more to wow you.

Of course, when you meet that 1 out of 10 woman, you're in danger of developing oneitis.
 
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