Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Waiting for a woman to blow me away! :)

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Fellow Don Juans,

Share your experiences on this:

Since the day I decided to man up, and start running in the Alpha League instead of slogging in the AFC one, I have completely been able to take control of my feelings, and be the man who has been with so many different women that none of them manages to simply blow me away.
Sure, I feel interested to talk to them, to do them, to stay with them..but but but, not like Oh My God! The Woman of my Dreams is here! :\

In short, I have not faced a challenge since.:cheer:
Maybe because I have a completely new mind set and can tackle anything coming my way. Or maybe because I have lost contact with the real teenager thats inside us all when we meet someone fvckable?

I feel philosophical writing this :p

So share with me, here, fellow Juans.
Did you feel stuff like Love at First Sight kinda stuff after being with a bunch of women?

Or is this one of the drawbacks of being an Alpha?:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If I lived in India, I wouldn't be blown away by the women there either. So being Alpha has nothing to do with it.
 

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juicywa said:
If I lived in India, I wouldn't be blown away by the women there either. So being Alpha has nothing to do with it.

Naa man, thats a ****ty thought :)
I'm a born and raised Indian, spent some time in the UK and US too.

Trust me when I say this, Brown Chicks are the most sincere, satisfying lovers in the whole wide world. No *****iness. :)
 

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Meast1525 said:
Unfortunately there is will always be a woman out there who will cause you to get carried away. Its kinda like there is always going to be some guy out there stronger or there is always going to be a car out there faster. My advice to you is just be patient, it will happen. Hopefully you are as masterful as you think you are when that moment comes. Im actually going through it right now and it isa hell of a ride. Your true don juam skills will be put to the test. Goodluck when it happens.

Yeah bro, I soooo wanna feel that with the next woman I meet :p
Guess I'll have to see for myself when that comes.

The one undying fear in my mind, what If my game slips when DA WOMAN! arrives :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I do allow myself to get excited about women. But I channel the energy sexually. I dunno, I just love the feeling of the chase too much to deny myself of it.
 

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I don't know how much it has to do with don juan/alpha stuff, I think it's more of a matter of maturity, and realization.

9 women out of 10, if you take away their looks, are pretty lame. Most of them have no interests, passions, or goals. Their objective is to party and look hot while doing it. When you realize that most women are the same in more aspects than not, it takes more to wow you.

Of course, when you meet that 1 out of 10 woman, you're in danger of developing oneitis.
 
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