"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Waiter recommends healthier foods; females become irate

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfqHn5ENFwI&feature=player_embedded

Here you've got this little social experiment where a fat woman orders these huge carb-heavy meals, and the waiter tries to help her out a little bit by recommending some healthier choices and warning her of the dangers of her order. Consequently, female eavesdroppers get irate, while the male ones dgaf (they even support the waiter when it's a hot girl instead).

I laughed my ass off..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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