"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a couple of days ago me and my friends were at a restaurant and there was this cute japanese/white chick that sat us down. she's like a hb8 to me, if she put a little more meat she'd push hb9.

over the course of the night she would sometimes pass our table, look back and we would catch each other looking at each other, i casually smile and she would do the same while turning her head forward.

when we were leaving we pass by her, she looks up and she stares into my eyes for a really good second, she waves bye with a big smile and I do the same. my friends were totally psyched, they were all saying man she was totally looking at you dude! i felt like i could have done more though, i was really nervous i didn't know what to say! any tips? i plan on visiting there more often.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Next time something like that happens, don't let just smile back at her, check her out and look her up and down. Then smile. Then you have to talk to her. Getting girls to smile at me doesn't do it for me...unless it's at the end of the night and I'm all sweaty smoking a cigarette.
 
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afc no more said:
a couple of days ago me and my friends were at a restaurant and there was this cute japanese/white chick that sat us down. she's like a hb8 to me, if she put a little more meat she'd push hb9.

over the course of the night she would sometimes pass our table, look back and we would catch each other looking at each other, i casually smile and she would do the same while turning her head forward.

when we were leaving we pass by her, she looks up and she stares into my eyes for a really good second, she waves bye with a big smile and I do the same. my friends were totally psyched, they were all saying man she was totally looking at you dude! i felt like i could have done more though, i was really nervous i didn't know what to say! any tips? i plan on visiting there more often.
I went to the Doctors office today as I had not had a check up since..forever. In fact I do not even recall having a check up except when I was playing either baseball or football.

There was a cute young thing in the office. We made eye contact and smiled. She tried to imitate my deep phone voice as she was the one who called several times to make sure I was making the appointment.

She even took me back and did the blood pressure which came out to 140 over 90 and she put my hand on her hip so I tickled her by squeezing her obliques as we looked into each others eyes and laughed.

It was sunny out here in California today. About 70 degrees.

I finished up with the doc and vowed to return after some blood tests.


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Basically I had nothing to say and I am asking nothing and offering nothing as this post does.

Just rambling about a encounter with some ho. Did I get some digits no. So why am I even wasting time typing this....and why am I wasting your time so that you can even read this dribble.
 

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i don't get what you are trying to get at, i make eye contact all the time but in this instance i actually want to do something about it. and thanks Ollie i will try that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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afc no more said:
i don't get what you are trying to get at, i make eye contact all the time but in this instance i actually want to do something about it. and thanks Ollie i will try that.

((sigh))

Your post is about nothing. Just about your day. Are you asking for advice or offering advice? It seems to be neither. So your post was a total waste of time to even read.

I am on the toilet right now taking a dump with my lap top on a tray as I am typing this...that information is neither asking for advice nor offering advice...you see what I am saying.

Next time man up and step up so that you at least have something to report in the way of a real field report.

I see girls every day that I make and get eye contact with. I wouldn't post about it.
 

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afc no more said:
i was really nervous i didn't know what to say! any tips? i plan on visiting there more often.
I believe I am asking for advice please.
 
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