Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a couple of days ago me and my friends were at a restaurant and there was this cute japanese/white chick that sat us down. she's like a hb8 to me, if she put a little more meat she'd push hb9.

over the course of the night she would sometimes pass our table, look back and we would catch each other looking at each other, i casually smile and she would do the same while turning her head forward.

when we were leaving we pass by her, she looks up and she stares into my eyes for a really good second, she waves bye with a big smile and I do the same. my friends were totally psyched, they were all saying man she was totally looking at you dude! i felt like i could have done more though, i was really nervous i didn't know what to say! any tips? i plan on visiting there more often.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Next time something like that happens, don't let just smile back at her, check her out and look her up and down. Then smile. Then you have to talk to her. Getting girls to smile at me doesn't do it for me...unless it's at the end of the night and I'm all sweaty smoking a cigarette.
 
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afc no more said:
a couple of days ago me and my friends were at a restaurant and there was this cute japanese/white chick that sat us down. she's like a hb8 to me, if she put a little more meat she'd push hb9.

over the course of the night she would sometimes pass our table, look back and we would catch each other looking at each other, i casually smile and she would do the same while turning her head forward.

when we were leaving we pass by her, she looks up and she stares into my eyes for a really good second, she waves bye with a big smile and I do the same. my friends were totally psyched, they were all saying man she was totally looking at you dude! i felt like i could have done more though, i was really nervous i didn't know what to say! any tips? i plan on visiting there more often.
I went to the Doctors office today as I had not had a check up since..forever. In fact I do not even recall having a check up except when I was playing either baseball or football.

There was a cute young thing in the office. We made eye contact and smiled. She tried to imitate my deep phone voice as she was the one who called several times to make sure I was making the appointment.

She even took me back and did the blood pressure which came out to 140 over 90 and she put my hand on her hip so I tickled her by squeezing her obliques as we looked into each others eyes and laughed.

It was sunny out here in California today. About 70 degrees.

I finished up with the doc and vowed to return after some blood tests.


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Basically I had nothing to say and I am asking nothing and offering nothing as this post does.

Just rambling about a encounter with some ho. Did I get some digits no. So why am I even wasting time typing this....and why am I wasting your time so that you can even read this dribble.
 

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i don't get what you are trying to get at, i make eye contact all the time but in this instance i actually want to do something about it. and thanks Ollie i will try that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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afc no more said:
i don't get what you are trying to get at, i make eye contact all the time but in this instance i actually want to do something about it. and thanks Ollie i will try that.

((sigh))

Your post is about nothing. Just about your day. Are you asking for advice or offering advice? It seems to be neither. So your post was a total waste of time to even read.

I am on the toilet right now taking a dump with my lap top on a tray as I am typing this...that information is neither asking for advice nor offering advice...you see what I am saying.

Next time man up and step up so that you at least have something to report in the way of a real field report.

I see girls every day that I make and get eye contact with. I wouldn't post about it.
 

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afc no more said:
i was really nervous i didn't know what to say! any tips? i plan on visiting there more often.
I believe I am asking for advice please.
 
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