"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Waited too long to **** her....LOL

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Cliffnotes real quick

- Stage 4 clinger, cutter, girl with boyfriend, raw sexual girl with a tight ass is feeling me, and wants the D.

- I tease her from time to time but largely ignore her.

1. she had a BF
2. she cuts herself, wtf
3. largely didn't care even though she's hot

- Dumps her BF and makes it insanely clear she wants me fuxx her brains out, no questions asked

- my phone service is cut off for a month WTF lol. Never got her address or anything'

- 1 month later my phone is back up. I think, "What the hell." Hit her up to clap the cheeks

I find out she's currently seeing my best friend.

:crackup:

Oh well haha.

Interested to see how this plays out. he doesn't have a car.

This ever happen to anyone on Sosuave? oh and pics

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Marvin Gaye said:
Cliffnotes real quick

- Stage 4 clinger, cutter, girl with boyfriend, 8/10 tight ass is feeling me and wants the D

- Tease her from time to time but largely ignore her.

1. she had a BF
2. she cuts herself, wtf
3. largely didn't care even though she's hot

- She breaks up with her BF and makes it insanely clear she wants fuxx her brains out, no questions asked

- my phone service is cut off for a month WTF lol. Never got her address or anything'

- 1 month later my phone is back up. I think, "What the hell." Hit her up to clap the cheeks

I find out she's currently seeing my best friend.

:crackup:

Oh well haha.

Interested to see how this plays out as he doesn't have a car. Bish isn't a priority but I wouldn't mind getting up in that

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Since I provided pics least you Don Juans could do is leave a sympathy reply

Ok please do not lie about your plates being 8/10.

I am realistic when I say im going out with a 5/10 tonight. That girl in your pic I would consider 6 out of 10 at most.
 

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cutter?

Major sign of BPD or other personality disorder. Better read up on it here and watch your six. They can fvck you up bad.

Bet she's uber feminine, talks like a 16 year old and is incredibly sexy huh? Makes you drool?
 

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5string said:
Cutter?

Major sign of BPD or other personality disorder. Better read up on it here and watch your six. They can fvck you up bad.

Bet she's uber feminine, talks like a 16 year old and is incredibly sexy huh? Makes you drool?
Definitely!!

I probably wouldn't have known about that if it weren't for this site. After being on Sosuave for a couple years I'm confident I can pickup on the signs....somewhat..

You hit the mark. Very feminine. Talks to other guys like they're the only dude in the world. It's actually creepy how she shifts her personality to match with others.

Scary stuff!!
 

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Marvin

You'd better be careful brother or you'll be circling the BPD drain. I'm serious.
 

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What's up with the 10 daily post limit

and nice pictures to jack off to
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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5string said:
Marvin

You'd better be careful brother or you'll be circling the BPD drain. I'm serious.
He's exactly right. A buddy of mine was in a similar situation. We will just say it ended with him finding the girl on the bathroom floor, blood everywhere. Dexter type sh1t. I'd let this bird fly.
 

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Marvin Gaye said:
The rating scale is pretty ridiculous in my opinion. If it makes you feel any better, read my post and assign whichever number you want
Yeah it is, he thinks the girl in your pic is only a 6 and the one in his is an 8, but the only difference I can see is that his "8" is white while your "6" is not. At least your pics show her body a bit and it looks rather nice, his only shows a face and headshots can easily be misleading.

I don't care much for numbers anymore, it's come down to "**** or don't ****."
 

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Zerro said:
Yeah it is, he thinks the girl in your pic is only a 6 and the one in his is an 8, but the only difference I can see is that his "8" is white while your "6" is not. At least your pics show her body a bit and it looks rather nice, his only shows a face and headshots can easily be misleading.

I don't care much for numbers anymore, it's come down to "**** or don't ****."
this
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How do u feel about ur lack of action? Does it not scare you that it may go to other areas of your life or repeat itself? Don't u want to get to know the root of the problem and change yourself?

WHAT DO U PLAN TO DO ABOUT THIS PROBLEM... NOTHING? SOMETHING? WHAT? WHAT'S UR QUESTION... IS THERE ANY QUESTION?
 

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Groovy said:
How do u feel about ur lack of action? Does it not scare you that it may go to other areas of your life or repeat itself? Don't u want to get to know the root of the problem and change yourself?

WHAT DO U PLAN TO DO ABOUT THIS PROBLEM... NOTHING? SOMETHING? WHAT? WHAT'S UR QUESTION... IS THERE ANY QUESTION?
this
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Hey Vapo. Get out of there while you have a chance, she sounds like a Looney Tune. lololol
Yeah I guess you're right. The crazy ones are addictive
 

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Groovy said:
How do u feel about ur lack of action? Does it not scare you that it may go to other areas of your life or repeat itself? Don't u want to get to know the root of the problem and change yourself?

WHAT DO U PLAN TO DO ABOUT THIS PROBLEM... NOTHING? SOMETHING? WHAT? WHAT'S UR QUESTION... IS THERE ANY QUESTION?
I just don't know : /
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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