"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Waited too long, now what?

kanye10

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Long story made short,

Me and this girl are into eachother and I was ready to make my move however she went home for the summer. (same college). Now all i have is her icq contact and we still live pretty close but not on campus anymore.

Would it be stupid to ask her out over icq or am i screwed and have to wait till next year?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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white cloud 8

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it's never too late....but, seriously you should have hit that sh*t up when you had the chance (which I am guessing was many) and since she went home for the summer, she possibly might lose interest in you. Hey, you never know until you ask, right?
 

kanye10

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I dont want her to lose interest, even though I will be seeing her all next year. If i wait though, who knows what could happen over the summer. I just realllly wish i didn't have to do this online.

btw what school in canada do you go 2?
 

white cloud 8

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Do you know where she lives or maybe ask her online for her phone number because you would like to talk to her (and this gives you the opportunity to ask her if she is free to go out sometime), just do it!
 

kanye10

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It's long distance to call even though were not that far away....

bump
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kayne, if you're into each other, she won't lose interest. It's a win/win situation so long as she's not a flake and you and she don't do something to totally turn the other one off.

Ask for her number and give her a call, do not hesitate.
 
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