"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Waited too long, now what?

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Long story made short,

Me and this girl are into eachother and I was ready to make my move however she went home for the summer. (same college). Now all i have is her icq contact and we still live pretty close but not on campus anymore.

Would it be stupid to ask her out over icq or am i screwed and have to wait till next year?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it's never too late....but, seriously you should have hit that sh*t up when you had the chance (which I am guessing was many) and since she went home for the summer, she possibly might lose interest in you. Hey, you never know until you ask, right?
 
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I dont want her to lose interest, even though I will be seeing her all next year. If i wait though, who knows what could happen over the summer. I just realllly wish i didn't have to do this online.

btw what school in canada do you go 2?
 
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Do you know where she lives or maybe ask her online for her phone number because you would like to talk to her (and this gives you the opportunity to ask her if she is free to go out sometime), just do it!
 
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It's long distance to call even though were not that far away....

bump
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kayne, if you're into each other, she won't lose interest. It's a win/win situation so long as she's not a flake and you and she don't do something to totally turn the other one off.

Ask for her number and give her a call, do not hesitate.
 
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